From a simple hello and a slight smile, her “P” has already assessed his oral hygiene, grooming habits and manners. If his walk is right and his confidence is to her fitting, mademoiselle is already trying to figure out what he looks like under those clothes and his “bulge factor.” Next thing you know, her “P” has added him to the menu! This is survival of the fittest ladies; you versus your “hot spot.”
The only answer – put your pussy on a time-out.
Celibacy is the word of the day; it’s gained a bad rep as only an option for the jaded, bitter and hopeless. But on the flip side of that, a lot of women are choosing celibacy because of health reasons, religion or simply because they need a break from “doing it.” While celibacy may sound like an extreme choice to some, it is a liberating act to others.
It’s not about not having the looks or sex appeal to get a man in bed, celibacy is about choosing to not want any penis in your life for a specific amount of time. Our vagina, our temple, the diamond in between our thighs, she is valuable. This priceless commodity wasn’t designed for everyone to sample, and it only becomes a reckless act if every man can say that he has put his hand in the cookie jar. We as women tend to forget the power that our “P” holds. Most females have a hard time realizing that if they keep their little lace panties on for longer than a month, they will actually give a lengthier lifespan to their blossoming relationships. In addition to that, they are adding time and respect to the situation, ultimately taking their intimacy to a more substantial and sensational level.
Celibacy can be a great way to find out if you will get on well as friends, and whether or not you can deal with each other’s personalities down the line. Now is your chance to spend more time sharing experiences and talking, and less time having sex.
Those late night cravings, that yearning deep within your cervix, those dreams that feel real enough to taste – WHEW, I know it ain’t easy girl! In these moments you have to be focused, speak slowly and clearly to your “P” when you explain that the “use it or lose it” policy really doesn’t apply here; it’s more like overuse it and loosen it. Continue letting them “beat the pussy up” and find yourself in need of a vagina lift, attempting to regain your original tautness of the ’90s. Once beaten, the only option to obtain that vintage tightness is vaginoplasty surgery (vaginal rejuvenation).
Let us all learn from Brandi Glanville, of the Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, and her “P;” she opted for vaginal rejuvenation surgery, costing around $8,000 – $9,000. Brandi says she is “thrilled with the results,” remarking “It’s tight like a tiger,” but also admits to the procedure being more painful than she anticipated. (Ouch!)
-Here are a few gorgeous celebrities that have practiced celibacy:
- Meagan Good (prior to marriage)
- Lady Gaga
- Jill Scott
- Sherri Shepherd (after her divorce)
- Tamera Mowry (prior to marriage)
- Brandy
- Mariah Carey (prior to marriage)
“Women nowadays, we connect physically too soon without getting to know the person. If you don’t actually give this person your body and then they let you down, there really isn’t a great disappointment; not like it would be if you have already connected physically.” Jessica White
Be wise and be sure that he’s worth your goods. That short-period of satisfaction can often lead to unnecessary complexities and disappointments. Don’t share your “P” with just anyone. Give her a break, at some point or another, I’m sure she will need some QT away from the world to relax and re-evaluate her surroundings.
The LifeStyleHer Files are bi-weekly lifestyle posts produced and curated by Mashonda Tifrere exclusively for GlobalGrind.com. The LifeStyleHer will focus on all things women, aiming to enrich the womanly mind, body and soul.
