Sorry, ladies, your favorite Dreamville rapper is officially off the market.

Well, technically, he has been for a long time, but after today, none of you really stand a chance.

J. Cole was in New York City on Tuesday attending #MLKNow in honor of Martin Luther King, Jr. Day when he was “forced” to confirm his marriage to long-time girlfriend Melissa Heholt.

The awkward exchange happened when breakout director Ryan Coogler asked J. Cole, “How did getting married change you?” 

Ryan’s question was met with a surprised look from J.Cole.

He responded, saying, “Oh, what is that?!….. That was like one thing to not do.

Clearly, someone didn’t inform Ryan the wedding was a secret, so he continued on by adding, “Nobody knows?

To which Cole, we’re not really sure what emotions were running through his head, responded, “Well, they know now.

It’s a sad day in the world for Cole fans, but still, a huge congratulations is in order for the couple.

The two met while attending St. Johns University in Queens, New York, and have been dating ever since.

If you missed the hilarious exchange, check it out up top.

SOURCE: RAP-UP  | PHOTO CREDIT: Getty