About Shelly Flash

Greetings Global Grinders, the adventures have begun again… Sorry fellas, you may not like this one but men can be on some bullshit.  Is it ego, self-gratification, low self-esteem or just dumb but why do men try to cheat or do some questionable shit and think it’s cool or that women won’t notice? Ok, so […]

The other day I wrote a blog about cheating and its “new” or “current” common place and/or acceptability.  And I shared specifically about two of my girlfriends; one was a “cheater” and the other was cheated on. My girlfriend that was cheated on, caught her man with another woman; and upon the discovery her boyfriend locked […]

by Shelly Flash In this era of “new age” dating, do any particular rules still apply or have we opened ourselves up to more subconscious baggage with our liberal approach to male/female interaction?  We like to say “I am exploring my options”, “don’t look for love – just let it happen”, “I am not ready […]

by Shelly Flash In this era of “new age” dating, do any particular rules still apply or have we opened ourselves up to more subconscious baggage with our liberal approach to male/female interaction?  We like to say “I am exploring my options”, “don’t look for love – just let it happen”, “I am not ready […]

by Shelly Flash In this era of “new age” dating, do any particular rules still apply or have we opened ourselves up to more subconscious baggage with our liberal approach to male/female interaction?  We like to say “I am exploring my options”, “don’t look for love – just let it happen”, “I am not ready […]

Recently, a young man asked me out on Facebook and upon us communicating on the phone; he began to run down a list of information he found out about me via various online sources and I wasn’t sure if I should be flattered or cautious. He knew my age, the school I went to, some […]

Recently, a young man asked me out on Facebook and upon us communicating on the phone; he began to run down a list of information he found out about me via various online sources and I wasn’t sure if I should be flattered or cautious. He knew my age, the school I went to, some […]

The other day I spoke with a 30-something, semi-committal female and she told me she has never received an orgasm. I was taken aback; intrigued, and I had “Damn” all over my face. And me being me,   I began to ask question after question to seek clarification because I wasn’t sure how it was possible. […]