Katie's Blog: That Lying, Cheating MotherF*cker!?

Sometimes things just don’t feel right-- know what I mean?

Sometimes you are talking to your man or to your girl and the words coming out of their mouth aren’t matching the feeling they’re giving you.  You feel like something’s just not right.  You might tune in a little more after you feel that, looking for confirmation that the nervousness in your stomach is valid.  I think we all know it on some level when we’re being lied to, cheated on, or when the person we love isn’t really present.  I had a boyfriend a few years ago that started acting up, just being shady in general!  I couldn’t quite figure out if he stopped loving me or if he was just really worried about business (which is what he tried to say) His energy was all wrong and I felt like something switched in him and all of the sudden his intention toward me wasn’t good. 

Instead of trusting my vibe, I tried to logically explain things to myself.  I talked myself out of going with my intuition.   I also let him talk me out of going with my intuition.   In the end, it turned out that I was right.  He WAS being shady (in many many ways) and he was disrespecting our relationship and me for quite a long time. 

Anyone who has gone through a betrayal with a friend or lover can testify to what a crushing blow that can be to the ability to trust other people.  For me, the hardest part was really learning to trust myself.  I was like “wow, how could I be so stupid?” , “How could I have been so blind!?”

Since then I’ve learned the importance of trusting my vibes.  If something doesn’t feel right to me, even if I’m hearing all sorts of excuses flowing from another person’s mouth or even flowing from my minds, I choose my instinct rather than logic.  The wonderful lesson I’ve learned is that to trust your vibes can save you from endless amounts of pain.

If you feel like there are people around you who aren’t telling you the truth or who don’t have your best interest at heart, don’t talk yourself out of it.  If you have a friend or lover who says one thing, but makes you feel something else, something is wrong….Trust your vibe and remove that person from your life.  There are so many people who are meant to love and support you, but the first step to allowing them in is loving and trusting yourself.  Life is too short to spend with haters or with lying, cheating motherf*ckers.

Trust your vibes and follow your instincts.  There is plenty of love for you just ahead.

- Katie Rost