It seems that women (especially White women) who love to drop their panties and misbehave are being rewarded, adored and praised a lot these days—especially on this site.
From the queen of hanging out hoo-ha, Britney Spears, to the new GG celebrity bloggers Aubrey O’Day and Governor Spitzer's former call girl Ashley Dupré to Kim Kardashian and the current fascination with Kanye’s girlfriend, Amber Rose. Yes indeed! Mis-behaving, raunchy vixens are getting ALL of the love....
One question, WHY?
One plausible answer: We are a lazy, sex and sleaze-obsessed mass of people who love to get the naughty fill of debauchery as much as possible.
It’s addictive! We are addicted!
I admit that I think there is something really entertaining and interesting about women who knowingly do things that go against the “smart and safe” choice that society tells us we should cling to. I like it when women misbehave and I like it when all misfits are doing their thing.
But lets be real-- Appreciating the bucking of authority is one thing, but the celebrity sleaze being dolled out consistently isn’t even purposeful or intelligent these days. This isn’t a case of Madonna’s naked boldness telling women to “Express Yourself” Nope…. It really DOES seem that if you are a female with a hoo-ha hanging out, if you are grasping your tits or sticking your butt directly into a camera, ANY camera, even if you have zero talent, no real job or discernable social contribution, well who cares… cause you’ve made it!
People (us, me, you, we) are clambering to witness you making a spectacle of yourself!!
In our twisted culture “Hoo-ha hanging out” girls are stars, while the “non-Hoo-ha hanging out” girls are bores.
To twist the knife on the good girls even more, once the “Hoo-ha hanging out” women are given all of this attention they are suddenly given a platform from which to "speak" and everyone is shocked and delighted to find that they can stitch words together into these incredible things called “sentences". They are then celebrated even more.
Good Girls are sitiing there with their jaws to the floor like "What the hell?!?!"
It’s all very exciting for the Bad Girls and all very unfair to the Good Girls.
In the interest of keeping it totally real, I want to take a minute to bow down to the ladies out there who keep their clothes on, who usually remember the last name of dudes they have sex with, who rock underwear that covers their genitals when wearing a skirt, who don’t go to rehab or get tattoos or generally Amy Winehouse style “go there”. I have ignored you and the culture has ignored you. As I gazed over the headlines on GG this morning and looked around at the content it suddenly dawned on me that I don’t want you to feel ignored today.
Wherever you are, I want to tell you some things I like about you:
I like it that you will work hard and go to a great college.
I like it that you will find a fullfilling career and use your mind and talents.
I like it that you will get married and bring thoughtful and beautiful children into the world.
I like it that you and your works will contribute to the upliftment of society.
Please don’t stop doing that or knowing that its important, VERY VERY important that you keep it classy. Sure you drop it like its hot, but you do it in your bedroom for yourself and your man. I want you to know that you DO exist even if a camera isn’t there.
You are the real deal, and today I hope some other people join in with me and call that what it is: Smoking HOT!
- Katie Rost