I Am Proud To Be a Virgin

by Teyana Taylor

HOW MUCH DO WE AS FEMALES CHERISH OUR MOST VALUABLE GIFT? 'SEX', YEAH I KNO TOUCHY SUBJECT, & AS U CAN SEE IN MY PIC I WEAR A PURITY RING & IM PROUD TO BE A VIRGIN.. BUT AM I BRINGING THIS UP & THIS TOPIC: LIKE DO WE AS FEMALES EVEN CARE WHO SLEEPS WITH US NOW?

LAST NIGHT I WAS IN HARLEM CHILLIN ON THE BLOCK WITH MY 'SLIMES (PEEPS) ..LOL..THEIR GUYS LIKE MY BROTHERS AND THEY WERE TALKIN ABOUT SEX AND THIS GIRL AND THAT GIRL, THEY WAS TRYIN TO GET ME OUTTA THEIR CUZ I WAS 'LIL SIS' THEY AINT WANT ME AROUND, BUT THEY STARTED TO TALK ABOUT GIRLS FROM ALL OVER ESPECIALLY AN AREA IN NYC CALLED THE BRONX AND ONE OF THEM SAID BE CAREFUL WHO U SLEEP WITH OUT THERE CUZ AT LEAST 500,000 ALONE HAVE THAT 'MONSTER' (HIV/AIDS), AND THAT JUS MADE ME WONDER WAT THE HELL IS GOIN ON OUT HERE IN THESE STREETS. GIRLS OUT HERE IN MY AREA IM JUS SPEAKIN ON WHERE IM FROM BUT IM SURE U ALL HAVE THE SAME ISSUES WHERE UR AT ALSO, BUT GIRLS HERE OVER TIME HAVE GOTTEN THIS ATTITUDE TO TAKE ON THE ROLE OF THE 'GUY', MEANING SOCIETY HAS TAUGHT US THAT THE 'GUY' IS THE ONE WHO SLEEPS WITH MANY PARTNERS DOESNT CARE WHO THEY SLEEP WITH AND THEY HAVE THIS MENTAL MISSION THAT EVERY GIRL IS A NOTCH ON THEIR BELT. WELL NOW ITS STARTIN TO SEEM LIKE GIRLS ARE DOIN THE SAME THING THESE DAYS, NOT TO SAY THAT THEY HAVENT BEEN DOIN IT BUT THEY'RE DOIN IT NOW MORE THAN EVER.