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BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF..

Posted by: Ne-Yo 6/5/2009 | 4,526 Views

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Hello there, and much love to all y'all. This is your gentleman about town Ne-Yo just checkin' in, seein' if all my folks are alright, and also bringing a few words of my admitted, limited wisdom. The topic is relationships: the successful, the unsuccessful and everything in between.

I don't know it all and I don't pretend to, but in some cases and instances I may know more than you. And what kind of gentleman would I be if I didn't share what little knowledge I've obtained on a particular topic with the people I love??

Now I've only been an occupant of this planet for 29 years, but in that time I've seen the sunshine and the rain. I am a man that has gone thru the many levels of what it is to be a man. From the selfishness and greed that we as a species suffer from, to the realization that the world doesn't revolve around me and I'm NOT supposed to just get my way, to the being angry at that fact, to eventually accepting it and learning that it doesn't mean that I can't be happy. Because ultimately that's what everybody wants. Be it "for life", or "only for a night", everybody wants to be happy. I think happiness starts with figuring out which one YOU want. If it's "only for a night", don't run around getting into serious relationships, knowing all you're gonna do is cheat. If it's "for life", understand what that means and be very careful in your selection process. Gotta make sure the other person is thinking the same way you are. In theory this should be very easy to do, in reality we lie to ourselves more than we do to other people.

Being honest with YOU is one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself, or another person. That honesty clears your vision. Now you know who you are, what you're into, and where your head is at, thus making it a little easier to look for what you want.This is a topic that'll take much time to discuss fully, and I don't have a lot of free time as you all know. So let's talk again soon. In the meantime, start with being honest with YOU, at the very least it's a step in the right direction.

See ya on the road!!!

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32 comments

neyo you a great guy an you speak like a true gentleman

♥IM CONCITED AND I HAVE REASON♥ 7/30/2009 | reply
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Ne-Yo, I think that you are one of the celebrities that does not let the limelight get to you! You are one of my favorite artists! You can tell that you really love what you do, and you put your heart and soul into your work! So for that, thanks! And keep makin those hits!

kk 7/29/2009 | reply
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Hey Ne-Yo, I don't know if you actually read the comments ppl make about your comments/knowledge, but your insights are enlightening. You are a great artist and seemingly a great guy...I wish you much continued success in life and love! Thanks for sharing U with US...Have a fantabular day!

Majestik_Lady 7/22/2009 | reply
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n*gga aint sh*t he can't sing for sh*t

JUJU 7/9/2009 | reply
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- STOP HATING, Sir!!
  
  bma 7/17/2009 | reply
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spoken like a true gentleman

Respectedness 6/26/2009 | reply
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Happy FATHERS DAY n*gga

Mr.NiggaPlease 6/21/2009 | reply
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www.WeBlinginc.com 6/21/2009 | reply
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That sh*t is trash.Shut the f*ck UP. Who in the f*ck made you a f*ckin doctor?Cause you're definitely NOT f*ckin Dr. Phil. Here's some advice hypocrite. Go away and never show up in the movie,music or behind music EVER AGAIN. NO ONE wants to hear that bubble gum sh*t you write and had the NERVE to call it MUSIC. YOUR just another black tar baby with Alopecia.GO get some Rogaine,sit down and shut the f*ck UP.

MrNiggaPlease 6/19/2009 | reply
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- f*ck you you racist wh*re and suck a d*ck while you go straight to hell!!!!!!!!!!!
  
  shy 6/23/2009 | reply
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- WHAT-EVA LAME-O!!! Women LOVE this man...LOVE LOVE LOVE 'em...get a grip and STOP being... J-E-A-L-O-U-S
  
  Bma 7/17/2009 | reply
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That sh*t is trash.Shut the f*ck UP. Who in the f*ck made you a f*ckin doctor?Cause you're definitely NOT f*ckin Dri Phil. Here's some advice hypocrite. Go away and never show up in the movie,music or behind music EVER AGAIN. NO ONE wants to hear that bubble gum sh*t you write and had the NERVE to call it MUSIC. YOUR just another black tar baby with Alopecia.GO get some Rogaine,sit down and shut the f*ck UP.

MrNiggaPlease 6/19/2009 | reply
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Very nice blogging Ne-yo! Learning to share all of me creatively, honestly, genuinely with my audience...friends,family so on...
Much love, success to you
Jamila

6/14/2009 | reply
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Your definetly __BE's SLUT. ALL THAT FOR AN AD!

SHIIIIIIIITTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT 6/12/2009 | reply
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Your mentality reminds me of myself, I agree with you totally, why bother, when you meet that special person that GOD said let no man, come between you'll know it. Until then like the Gentleman said as he so humbly put it, be honest with your self.

shonda 6/11/2009 | reply
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- Give it up,your a SLUT,did you f*ck __BE.BE. Fill in the words,SLUT!
  
  SHHHIIIITTTTTTTTtt 6/12/2009 | reply
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I believe Ne-yo is right being honest with yourself is the first step to finding what you truly want, but what happens when being honest with yourself is one of the most diffcult things to do.

Sheon 6/10/2009 | reply
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Let me tell YOU how you are HONEST to yourself and other people. YOU have 26 years of age on your profile,but in this statement or "advice" you said you were on this earth for 29 years. STOP it n*gga we all know you are lying your ass off so why post these stupid and bad f*ckin relationship advice from your ol' lady be a f*ckin man n*gga. Ladies and gentleman you're lookin at a hypocrite at its finest!

Mr.NiggaPlease 6/7/2009 | reply
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For 29 years you still dont know sh*t. What you are saying is bullsh*t. I've seen people that have been married for 25 years and more up and get a divorce in a snap. So, the person that you have been with just for 2 or 3 years might turn out to be another person in 10 years or more. Your still young,stop giving people bad advice.

Mr.NiggaPlease 6/6/2009 | reply
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- Really! Seriously! There is so much beauty in Ne-Yo and his songs that it is hard for me to understand why you would feel the need to post such a negative thought.
  
  Just to be "HONEST" with you...find some peace within yourself and with others.
  
  Gate 6/9/2009 | reply
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- I don't know what you're talking about.Things that I said on here were not negative they were HONEST.Unlike Neyo,I can be HONEST and not try to hide anything from people.Here's an advice READ bfore you comment.You're obviously a Neyo fan so I expected for them to come on here a TRY to defend him.
  
  Mr.NiggaPlease 6/9/2009 | reply
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- MR.n_____please...you are NOT a neyo fan... It is not about taking up for him...it is a bout being a(a word you might not know) gentle-man...you have a right to your thoughts...so does S. C Smith. (I got choo Ne-yo)
  
  B 7/17/2009 | reply
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