A Window Into Suaveness

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A IS FOR APPRECIATE
A woman wants to know she is appreciated, that what she does for you is appreciated. I don’t mean washing your clothes or cooking your meals. I mean the fact that she went and got her hair done, so you can look at her and say, “Ooh, damn!” The fact that she squeezed herself into that outfit that is probably very uncomfortable so you can say, “Damn, she looks good in that!”

LIPS, TONGUE & MOUTH
Women like to talk and when they do, they like to know that you are listening. For example, say your girlfriend wears a certain kind of perfume. She always wears this perfume — nothing else. One day you surprise her with that bottle of perfume when she runs out without asking her what kind it is or where to get it, you are the man! Talking to her friends like, “Oh, he came and he had the perfume and oh!” That shows her that she is not only there to have sex with every now and then. That will make you the man for at least three weeks. Trust me.

THE SINFUL SLOTH
Women like men who, every now and then, go out of their way and do something for them that they are not expecting — something that requires some effort or some doing. Anybody can order some flowers. That takes no effort — you order some flowers and they just show up and you take the credit. However, it takes some doing to go to that Build-A-Bear place and do the voice activation thing and making that bear tell a little inside joke that only you and her know about it.

SEXY LOVE
Listen — when she says keep it right there, keep it right there. Appreciate if she’s doing you a favorite (you know what I mean, but let’s keep it PG-13), let her know that you’re enjoying it. Don’t be lazy — try a position that ain’t exactly your favorite, but you know she loves. And when your giving a massage, put the bone on break.

- Ne-Yo ;)

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  • This just made my night! Ne-Yo, I know you hear this allll the time, but I am truly a fan or yours. I want to thank you for setting a standard that I require my men to reach. You seem to be the perfect gentleman. You are stylish, suae, sexy, & the total package. As an artist, i love you. You possess vocals like no other & can touch everybody w/your music. Keep it up. Peace & Love, Clarice. Let me know when you'll be in Chicago (where I live) or in Virginia (where I go to school: Hampton University)
  • HI Ne-yo. I am such a huge fan of yours. I love your sound. It reminds me of MJ. I'm an actress, dancer that can sing. I admire your ability to write what people feel but can't express. I love it. It's classic, fresh, authentic, relevent and smoth. I hope to meet you one day. I'd love to see you sing with Justin Beiber or at least write a great balad for him. I also would love for you and Beyonce and /or Mary-Mary and Whitney CEE CEE and BEE BEE etc.- any of them to sing a beautiful love song to God- Jesus. It's time.



    God bless you and I'll be praying for you. Also, thanks for writing songs to the independant women like me, and for carying yourself like the old school gentlement from back in the day. Bless you and I'm glad you are favored:)



    Patrice D. (starlightdiva)
  • HI Ne-yo. I am such a huge fan of yours. I love your sound. It reminds me of MJ. I'm an actress, dancer that can sing. I admire your ability to write what people feel but can't express. I love it. It's classic, fresh, authentic, relevent and smoth. I hope to meet you one day. I'd love to see you sing with Justin Beiber or at least write a great balad for him. I also would love for you and Beyonce and /or Mary-Mary and Whitney CEE CEE and BEE BEE etc.- any of them to sing a beautiful love song to God- Jesus. It's time.







    God bless you and I'll be praying for you. Also, thanks for writing songs to the independant women like me, and for carying yourself like the old school gentlement from back in the day. Bless you and I'm glad you are favored:)







    Patrice D. (starlightdiva)
  • All that you said will apply to me when i am invited by you to come up to where you are.
  • Hi Neyo, I just love everything you are doing. I am shock you are on a tour in Japan at this time Oct 26 2009. Love you Neyo Have fun on Stage.
  • All this is soooo true. Romance is not just SEX!
  • All I have to say is, THANK YOU NE-YO!!! Can I clone you? Smile :-)
  • Dats all very TRUE !... You are a WONDERFUL singer and my Fave song by you is "Part OF The List" Fantasic Song!
  • You are an amazing artist! and you have a great heart and great advice to guys out there! Guys take this all in! I can't wait to hear your new songs!
  • Funny to see and read how female you are ... it is important i think to try to understand the others to live better together ... Thank you for the sharing ... Important too ... So you're a very important person + a genius ... so don't be bored by being bored and keep goin' ... thank you !
  • My son... the Love Advisor... I'm so Proud:)
  • I love this guy! Not only does he have some real wisdom about women, but he writes in complete and grammatically correct sentences. He's not addicted to exclamation points and doesn't feel the need to cap everything he says (hate being screamed at) and has a distinctive writer's "voice".
  • I totally agree on that playa' .. appreciating the Lady by telling her but most importantly SHOWING HER goes a long way.. (speaking from experience) ..... well said!!
  • i see this blog spreading all over the web hes a a good heart donates his time to help community and aside from him god gave him real talent

  • I like that!!! It might be a little hard to give the bone a break when giving the lady a massage though!! You know, when she's lying on her stomach, and the botty is just right there saying hello in so many different languages!! But I guess that's what seperate the guys from the gentlemen!! Good Form!!

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