When I Was 19 Years Old, I Was Raped

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So as I'm on the way to shoot Chelsea Lately...I'm sad more than anything. After googling the gang rape story in Richmond and reading comments on blogs, it just leaves me sickened and really sad. The fact that race and socio-economics have been used to explain away a brutal gang rape...just sad...maybe I just have seen every kind of rapist and survivor....every race, color, religion, socio-economic status group...it's all the same...a lack of regard for violence against women. Tolerated, and in this case encouraged by the mob surrounding the perps...laughing, joking and taking pics.

When I was 19 years old, I was raped.  I was working at a shoe store in California, and the store was robbed.  The person robbing the store ended up putting a gun to my head and raping me.  As he was raping me, I felt as though I was floating over myself, thinking, 'This isn't happening.'  I blanked out and had an out-of-body experience, like I was hovering above seeing this ­horrible thing happen to someone else...not me.  I was fortunate enough to go the UCLA rape crisis center after this horrific ordeal.   It gave me my life back.  My dignity and self-esteem were gone and they helped me find them again. That’s why I now lobby for state legislatures across the country and the federal government to help raise funds and awareness for rape crisis centers, and I speak to all different kinds of people across the country about what happened to me. My goal is to never hear the words ‘me too’ from someone after I say ‘I was raped.’

xo
Gabrielle

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  • So sorry I didn't read this story earlier. Ms.Union, you are one of my all-time favorite actors, and for you to share this part of your life with the world is so very courageous of you. Let me say, I am so very thankful that this tragedy did not take you out of the game, or we would have never had the chance to enjoy your talents. I don't think words are ever sufficient when trying to understand the emotions of someone who has been physically violated in the manner you were. I can only say I am so very thankful you are still here. God Bless you Ms.Union, (big HUGGGG)

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  • I have been pleading everywhere, the Philadelphia paper is running a series on rape. The Fed Court at Philadelphia has been allowing the corporations to have rape parties for years,, 47,000 known repeat sex offenders are at large.



    NO ONE HAS EVER TAKEN A RAPIST OUT OF THE WORKPLACE.

    THEY JUST TELL THE WOMEN TO QUIT THERE JOBS.



    EVERYONE KNOWS WHAT THEY HAVE BEEN DOING ABOUT "SEX HARASSMENT".........THE CORPORATIONS ARE HAVING RAPE PARTIES.



    THIS GUY IS TED BUNDY, STEVEN PENNELL...WORSE



    The only reason this is working for him...IS BECAUSE he rapes women IN PUBLIC, in the workplace



    I am begging for help with this one serial rapist case

    I can be reached at beverlyprather1@verizon.net
  • you would be surprised how many, really high level politicians share rickys attitude......we are currently spending more than 3 billion in tax payer dollars to train police , courts hospitals, how to cover up felony rape.... why do you think all those rape kits get stashed......in my case the cop watched this guy rape me......i have federal court judges telling me that DEVIATE rape in the workplace......is not a federal crime...WRONG.....IT IS A FEDERAL CRIME..and those Judges know it......ricky is probably alot lower in the social structure than FEDERAL COURT JUDGES THAT LIKE RAPE PORN........
  • To pretty Ricky... you a stupid mutha fucka!! mabe your b*tch ass need to be raped, or perhaps you may be the one that has done this crime to someone eles. When women read your blog I hope they don't get down on themselves. Its dum ass people like you that make it hard out here for a sista. You stupid mutha fucka.
  • No, ricky,

    The federal govt gave the corporations billions in bail out money, millions in perks to corp execs



    It has gone to far when the govt lets corp exec's rape women in the workplace



    We are currently spending a fortune blowing up Afghanistan for treating women like that



    But, they are going to let some corp VP drug me, rape me and make rape porn films??



    The only one getting protection from the govt is the rapists, and the corporations??



    the govt should be protecting our women



    not prostituting the workforce, collecting fines instead of prosecuting white male rapists,



    believe it or not IT IS A FEDERAL CRIME, to rape women in the workplace.... but if the courts take money to seal cases, close cases, dismiss cases,,,leaving the rapist in business.....then, at that point, the govt is prostituting women



    when some sick animal rapes you in public in YOUR workplace....YOU can keep your mouth shut



    when some sick animal rapes YOU, and pays five grand to get his felony conviction sealed,,,and they send you to counseling , to be told "get on with your life"



    then you will know that IT IS the govt prostituting women



    this is the United States of America

    IT SHOULD BE AGAINST THE LAW TO RAPE OUR WOMEN

    especially, IN THE WORKPLACE



    IF THEY RAPED A CONGRESSMAN, WOULD HE HAVE TO GO GET A NEW JOB,,,,GET SENT TO COUNSELING... AND BE TOLD...

    GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE SENATOR....go find yourself another job?



    If the corporations had a "rape party" with YOU

    would you "be happy, and get on with your life"



    Giving millions to the corps was not enough for them

    they want a free ticket to rape the office help

    in public, in the workplace

















  • i dont care if u were raped.....u need to be happy and shut up...........!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • Wow, very sad,you are a brave women and you seem to have a excellent life now.good on you.
  • Wow thank you for your honesty. I think you are a brave young woman to be open about your ordeal. It seems that would be a horrifying experience. I am sorry that people have to suffer this type of invasion.
  • wow that's very sad to hear.
  • I am begging for help with this case. The guy is a psyco rapist, he rapes women in public.



    THE GOVERNMENT GAVE ALL THAT MONEY TO CORPORATE EXECUTIVES,BUT,A TICKET TO RAPE WOMEN IN THE WORKPLACE...THAT ONE IS GOING TO FAR...



    THE GOVT LET THAT GUY RAPE MANY WOMEN BEFORE ME

    AND, I HAVE FIGURED THIS ONE OUT



    WHEN THE FED IS NOT REAL CONCERNED ABOUT FELONY RAPE OF AMERICAN WOMEN IN THE WORKPLACE

    WHEN THE FED IS ALLOWING THIS GUY TO VERY LITERALLY, RAPE WOMEN IN PUBLIC

    I AM SURE, IT HAS TO DO WITH SIX FIGURES

    FOR SIX FIGURES, THE FED IS GOING TO LET THAT GUY STAY OUT THERE, RAPING WOMEN, IN VIOLATION OF FEDERAL LAW

    I WAS OFFERED THREE MILL AS "SETTLEMENT" BUT, THEY KEPT THAT MONEY. FOR SIX FIGURES THE GOVT WILL LET HIM RAPE

    HE RAPED MANY WOMEN BEFORE ME, AND I AM REAL SURE IT IS NOT TO HARD TO PUT ONE MAN IN PRISON...FOR RAPING MORE THAN A DOZEN WOMEN.... I AM SURE THAT IS THE REASON

    SIX FIGURES... PAID TO THE FED

    CAN SOMEONE HELP ME WITH THIS CASE....

    MAYBE SOMEONE THAT HAD A WIFE OR A DAUGHTER RAPED BY A CORPORATION,

    MY CASE MANAGER TOLD ME THAT THEY HAD THOUSANDS OF CASES

    MY GUESS IS....THOUSANDS OF WOMEN HAVE BEEN RAPED AND SUFFERED THE SAME "PROCEEDINGS" AS I HAVE

    THE FED GETS PAID, THE WOMEN DO NOT, THE COURT TELLS THE LAWYER HOW TO HANDLE "THE CASE"



    I WONDERED WHY EVERYONE WAS OVERLOOKING THE FACT THAT "THE CASE" WAS ABOUT A RAPIST. I CAN'T GET HIM IN PRISON IF THE FED CAN GET SIX FIGURES FOR THE RAPE OF AN AMERICAN WOMAN



    I HAVE ALL THE DOCUMENTATION THAT YOU NEED TO PROVE THIS ONE



    I NEED HELP WITH THIS CASE

    ONE PSYCHO RAPIST , AND SIX FIGURES

    GOVT LET HIM RAPE MANY WOMEN FOR SOME REASON

    THEY WILL PUT A KID IN PRISON...FOR PETTY THEFT

  • damn i know how u feel i was raped when i was like seven but thank god that ur life back together union u are beatiful women and u aways will been inside snd out
  • Hi

    it was an unlucky situation as he had a gun I feel ...

    gals must be trained physically to handle such situations in life.Every parent must be ready to teach

    the gal child karate,boxing or something which will boost a self confidence in them.Be careful and aware would help to avoid situations .

    I salute you brave lady...we need people and their support in a big way to make punishments more stronger

    than it is in the system for every country I felt personally
  • wow that's sad.....well thank God you got your life back together, & ecame the beautiful woman that you are!!!!!!!
  • The sharing of your testimony is inspiring. I'm certain it will free many (men and women) from the guilt and shame associated with abuses they've suffered and be an example of that we should all be open to doing ourselves - living in truth and knowing that with God and the proper support system, healing is possible. Many of us, myself included, have suffered abuse.

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