To Richmond Rape Victim, If There Is Anything You Need

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More attention must be drawn to the recent rape of a 15-year-old teen in Richmond, California. It enrages me that 10 individuals can stand around laugh and watch a young girl be brutally raped. I hope my statement reaches this brave, young woman.

I, like many other women, know how it feels to be sexually abused at such a young age. You feel dirty and like you will never be the same again. In the darkest hour you must try to find the light and I know this didn't happen to her to become a negative individual and make the many mistakes that I have. One must glorify the thing that can destroy us. In situations that don’t make sense, to me it just goes to show how God would use evil to help her save other people, as it has me. This young woman must not hang her head low. This is not her fault. She can and she will be a stronger woman. God did not abandon her, but is setting her future up to be a powerful voice for other victims of sexual abuse.

In the US 1.3 women (ages 18 and over) in the US are forcibly raped each minute. That translates to 78 per hour, 1,871 per day, or 683,000 year and does not include pre teens and children. I urge this young woman to hold her head high, be a winner and victorious.

I would personally like to extend my contact info to her and pray this blog reaches her. If you ever need to talk or I can help in anyway please contact Global Grind. I want to show you that there are women like Gabrielle Union and myself who are not taking this lightly and are making a stand. Right now its time to overcome your greatest hurt and try to find a remote positive reason why this happened to you. After I looked in the mirror after 10 years I realized how much this has affected my life.

I was 15 years old when I was abused as well. Now 10 years later, at 25, I have been delivered from my pain. This is a long journey so again if there is anything that I can do for you please contact me as I'm your biggest fan.

Jessica White

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  • Jessica:

    This is horrible I can't believe people stood around and watched like this a whole Highschool watched as if it was a cafteria fight people are sick I'm happy they are going to find the rapist YOU ARE ONE OF THE FEW CELEBRITIES WHO IS DOING A GOOD JOB SPEAKING OUT ON AN IMPORTANT ISSUE LIKE THIS I'M SO SORRY ABOUT WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU
  • Jessica and Gabrielle Union. You guys' blogs about the Richmond Rape is truly influential and inspiring.
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  • Jessica, what a great post. I am 15 years your senior however, I was too inspired by what you had to offer. I think others should follow suit, and do the same, however if they dont, keep being an inspiration
  • Gang rape, pulling trains, individual rape are all quite common, not only in the USA but around the world. It being common begs the question; is this a trait of all men, a trait that in some is suppressed and in others held at bay by laws? A young lady told me today of how she was forced to watch her boyfriend, a ruthless gang leader, and his posse of 10, gang rape her best friend after beating the girl nearly unconscious. When she tried to stop them she herself was severely beaten. For 2 and 1/2 hours, for 150 minutes, for what must have seemed an eternity, this 15 year old girl, after being lured into a den of evil, was beaten, sodomized, raped and dehumanized. For 150 minutes she felt the pain of strangers entering her without mercy, without regard and without restraint, hearing in the background the jeers and cheers of passersby, on a campus with security, near a school she attended, in a city where her parents lived, in a place without protection. Left alone, semiconscious, unable to stand, needing a helicopter for transport, and no one has come forward with video they possess, regardless of reward or promise of compensation. This is America, a place that breeds animals, feeds evil and disregards the sacredness of women and children. Woe unto the many with perversions too evil to fathom, and a nation that tolerates it. Rape should equal the death penalty, period. At least the inmates in our prisons have it right. Hopefully they will do the justice our justice system refuses to do. Death is the only answer to such a heinous and unconscionable crime. That girl’s life is gone; she will never recover.
    • "no one has come forward with video they possess, regardless of reward or promise of compensation."

      What they need is a promise of security, not compensation or reward.

      "This is America, a place that breeds animals, feeds evil and disregards the sacredness of women and children."

      That's not how I think of America.

      "Rape should equal the death penalty, period."

      Wrong. Sometimes, I'd feel inclined to kill a rapist. Sometimes not.

      "At least the inmates in our prisons have it right."

      Wrong. A few do, most don't.

      "Hopefully they will do the justice our justice system refuses to do."

      Wrong. Vigilante justice is usually a regression into barbarism and random violence.

      "Death is the only answer to such a heinous and unconscionable crime."

      Wrong. Long prison sentences are generally the answer.

      "That girl’s life is gone; she will never recover."

      And wrong again. She certainly won't recover by virtue of your little rant. Lots and lots of women have recovered from rape. I wish her the best and I'm going to remain optimistic.
  • 1st off I live in oakland and richmond is my 2nd home I passed by that school many times and its completly dark and u can't see and thing I feel so bad 44 her because reguadless of the matter she was raped and no one helped and knew what was going on I blame the officials the school and the city of richmond and they all should be punshished for not protecting her lights are lit up around there now but its to late they where suppose to do that a while ago I hate this happened to this girl god bless u and to all the folks leaving stupid comments grow up cause it could had happened anywhere to anybody including your mother sister anyone let's be real and 4 the person who called her a hoe well the hoe is the person who had u your momma
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  • i really hope shes ok. richmond is just as bad as oakland maybe worse. that sux it had to happen to her, and many other young ladies.
  • my friend knows this lil girl. she was a lil hoe. but again its ridiculous for that many ppl to rape a 15 year old girl and another group to juss stand there and watch especially at that age. i hope shes fine. that is all i can say. and i hope he does reach out to you. kuz i understand how it feels. i havent been through it but i can understand.
    • Excuse you? Who are you and your friend to call the victim a "hoe?" You're no better than the rapists, because it's that sick misogynist mentality that leads to rape in the first place.



      Then again, judging by your IGNORANT post, you obviously have an IQ below 70, so I guess I should forgive you for being a retard. It's not like you can help being stupid.
    • You are one ignorant individual...to post some b.s. like this..How disrespectful..Imagine if it was your sister, your mother, your niece any female in your family...you should be ashamed
    • I was going to reply but the other 2 said exactly what I was thinking! I could be wrong but I am going to assume your a child yourself. So instead of putting you down like you did that young lady I will say this to you. Words are hurtful. As women and young women we need not put each other down with name calling and finger pointing but should be uplifting and supportive. Regardless of her sexual past she is a child who was raped while people stood around and watched. Perhaps, instead of being hurtful you could be a friend. You never know how your words would affect her.
  • I didnt know u that well before,but this post is just so powerful and from now on I will be one of ur biggest fan Jessica,I hope this beautiful girl reaches back she will need all the support..I have a 15year old daughter and cannot even imagine something like this happening to her it will kill me..those men will pay for their acts...
  • My prays and well wishes go out this young lady . For those of you who stood and let it happen your day will come . I just downloaded a song from Itunes its called Still I Rise by Towanna this song really moves me please go get this song it can rebuild some of the proud that so many of us have lost
  • I was sexually abuse by a family member when i was 9 and it lasted untill i was 14 I finally told someone and they didnt believe me because he said he didnt do it. I still have thoughts in my mind i felt like it was my fault because i let it happen but i was a child and i didnt know better but because my family didnt believe i have a hard time in life because i feel like it never happened when i know it did noone deserve that feelin
    • I am sorry to hear about what happen. I strongly dislike when I hear about people who report their abuser and nothing happens. It makes me sick to my stomach. You may have not been able to stop him from abusing you but maybe you can stop him from abusing any body else. Is he still alive? Report him now! And as for as parents not listening(or allowing it to go on)need to be reported to social services. Because you deserve to have your child.
  • Seeing this blog really helped me realize that theres women like me and have the same feelings that I have. I was raped by 2 men 2 years ago and it still affects me today very much so!! I alwasy need the encouragement I dont really get that support or encouragement from people and days im very depressed down and out. I am so sorry for the 15 year old girl that was raped, I am in shock and i think rape victims are tossed to the side and people think its our fault. I'm trying to get over this day by day and its very hard for me. PLease if anyone would like to e-mail me with encouragement or talk to please feel free to e-mail me at JVcheer86@yahoo.com. Thank you
  • I am so happy this girl is getting so much positive feedback & I pray she reads half of it. It will help her so much, See I know I was raped by 8 men for 7 hours! I called to the neighbors for help but they closed the windows & blinds. I was held against my will & abused to no end, Trust me when I say U can never ever imagine what this child has been thru. I was not much older then her when it happened, Then the hell u go thru after with the police & questions from everybody cuz. I will pray everyday that since hers was in the papers & news they will be prosecuted better then the evil ones who hurt me. See in those days no one talked about it, My mother when I told her asked me "what did i do I must have asked for it" This was I thought the cruching blow yet I was wrong. WHen court time came they wouldnt let me go cuz I am a minor, Later i was told my statement was twisted & all they got for kidnapping, rape & holding a gun to me was ^ weekends in jail! That was 33yrs ago I am praying that the system is soo much better now cuz nothing makes u feel more like it was ur fault when the court slaps their wrists! I am still miserable r they? I doubt it!

    TO THIS ANGEL: We all make a mistake but they Had NO RIGHT to touch you wothout ur permission & in the state u were in, No Matter what so please NEVER blame yourself! Remember they r the bad ones, get help soon! I know it will help in ur everyday life All ur life! Lots of people have reached out to u as I am I give Global Grind my permission to give out my email address to you, But I think u will b fine,u have a very large wonderful support system around you. You r blessed they found u in time but still to late! The ones who aren't arrested but were there? They will pay trust me someday it will comeback to them! I will be praying for u daily sweety. Hope ur life gets back to normal as soon as u feel it. Bless You & Hugs from the world!
  • This story saddens me as well. It weighed so heavy on my heart when I heard it, and I still cry when I think about it. I have a son who just started high school and I asked him what he would do if he saw that. I know my son he would try to help her, and that's exactly what he said. I told him that he would need to get an adult. I can't believe that all of those students just stood and watched and the lack of security. How did that go on for two hours with out anyone patrolling the campus? I'm an adult and when I'm out with my girlfriends we go to the bathroom or anywhere in two's. We need to teach our children to do that too. I'm keeping this young lady in my prayers.

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