I think u only go loooking for trouble, and 9 times out of 10 u get hurt by what u find....

outside of marriage you have no legal standing, so therefore if you need to snoop, you need to be out.

And on swaping phones, that is for kids!

1. If you conduct business on your phone why would you swap? What are you trying to prove? That's a stunt, not a real move there's a difference!

2. People think when your fornicating or getting a couple dollars from somebody that you own them, what's that about? even when you profess your love to or for someone they still have an Identitiy that is Idependent from yours! Are people conjoined twins or better yet The Borg?

HOLLA@YAGIRL

If my ex-girlfriend backwhen I was dating her had read my e-mail messages I guess I'd have to crawl around on the ground,wear a helmet and duck in case she threw shitLOL No seriously I'm not sure I thought women like it if you fill your e-mail box up with pictures of other chicksLOL You think I should call some women up and ask them,"If you go out with me can I fill up my e-mail box with the phone numbers of strippers?And yes honey can I borrow your money to get lap dancesLOL?"

Uh you need to tell her that she is very insecure and until she fixes those insecurities yall shouldnt be together. You trust and respect her, why cant she do the same thing for you. Its a trust issue in my eyes.

It happen to me and they just get their feelings hurt, by looking for something to argue about when everything is fine. when they snoop and find stuff it's like for what they end up staying n\e way. It seems they can't believe a kat is loyal to them so they snoop...

I'm still married. That's saying a lot after what he came across.

One thing that I've learned in my short life is that you can't control anything but yourself. If some one wants to cheat... looking though their phone or email will not deter them. BTW... you will usually find what you're looking for... be it a new job or a cheating mate... you'll usually find it.

Well tell me people. Does it satisfy u once u went trough his/her phone or email. To know he/she isnt cheating on u. Ur always gonna find something when ur searching for something

I have hacked/spied on previous ex and I found out a whole lot of sh*t that I wish I hadn't. Sometimes you have a feeling and male or female one must trust one's own intuition. The spying part was just to confirm what I already suspected because this pathetic individual couldn't be honest with me.

i have zero to hide so it's not like he would find anything there however, snooping on me speaks to his lack of trust and possible insecurity. that's a turn off and would probably make me change my feelings towards him. i'm not the "cheating type". it takes too much memory and energy, both of which i'd rather use doing more productive things so if i'm not feeling the relationship, i'm telling him and we can either rectify it or go our separate ways. snooping on me is unnecessary and would definitely earn him the side eye, lol.

if i have nothing to hide no problem , and i will let time pass and do the same to my boyfried

sh*t if he can snoop so can i

If you're in an open & honest relationship then you & your man should be able to switch phones and or answer each other's phones w/no problem -- HANDS DOWN. The family and friends within his & her circle should know her and know him when calling.

Do unto others as you want done to you. You can check my phone with no problem, so i expect to check yours. A couple should be able to switch phones without any worries. if you have something to worry about, then maybe you should be single instead of sneaky.

If I'm given a reason to check phones, emails what ever I will. I refuse to set around and trust someone who doesn't deserve it. Especially when I'm 100% trust worthy.

p.s. I let my hubby know what the deal was from the start, it is his decision whether or not to heed my warning. :)

That just happen to me boy. He forgot to log his email out on his LT and his girl read all his sh!t. So she kicked him out and his dog. Cold but true