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We Can Handle The Truth: Gender & Orientation Are Irrelevant To The Military Mission

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War is instructive: no matter how well things work in the peacetime military, when real bullets are flying, that’s when it becomes clear which policies yield victory, and which are pointless.  The reality on the ground in Afghanistan and Iraq, after more than eight years of engagement, is that women are fighting effectively in combat positions, and gays and lesbians are serving in critical roles throughout the military. 

American’s top commander in Afghanistan, Gen. Stanley McChrystal, is asking for a significant increase in the number of US Soldiers in Afghanistan within the next year.  Now is an appropriate time to review and repeal the policies that handicap our field commanders and dishonor our Soldiers, and bring them in line with reality.

Some gays and lesbians are serving openly and are accepted by a generation weaned on “Ellen” and “Will & Grace”.   In a 2006 Zogby survey, 23% of soldiers said they knew someone gay in their unit.  A commander’s dilemma: ignore the law – or spend time doing a lot of paperwork that will leave the unit a Soldier down.

The same commander must skirt around the rule barring women from serving in units with a “direct ground combat” mission.   Does the commander choose between the best Soldier for the job and knowingly ignore the regulations? Or settle for someone who is perhaps less capable?

A Soldier is a Soldier.  Despite a persistent “macho” mythos, it is becoming clear that neither gender nor sexual orientation is directly pertinent to a Soldier’s ability to do their job.  The reality is that women and gays are everywhere on the battlefield. Both gender and sexual orientation are indistinguishable to the enemy.

The original and unsubstantiated justification for the exclusion of women included that women lack the emotional stability and physical strength for combat and battlefield stress.   The justification for the ban on homosexuals is that a service member’s admission of sexual orientation negatively affects the good order and discipline of a military unit.  However, the Defense Department’s own studies, performed by the RAND Corporation in 2005 and 2007, found no factual basis for either of these claims.  

Opposition to change remains.  There is even resistance to additional studies to establish objective and measurable criteria for combat positions that would open the door to women qualifying for combat  These objections come from those who are no longer in the fight; they assume that their biases against women and gays are still widespread in today’s Army.  They cling to an illusion that only straight men fight our wars.  They are wrong. Fortunately, the opposition voice is being overtaken by a new generation and a new reality.
 
We now have a generation of women with combat experience.  We now know that gays and lesbians have served honorably for decades.  Current policies concerning the assignment of Army women and banning the service of openly gay and lesbian Soldiers should be changed to reflect actual practices that are essential to wage this type of war.

We agree with Col (ret) David Johnson, PhD and senior political scientist at the RAND Corporation:

”I just never got how we could put this warrior ethic in front of the obligation to defend the Republic.  It has always dumbfounded me why we don’t honor that more than we honor this ‘warrior tradition.’ ....Anyone who signs up for this life of service should be cherished. 
The criteria should not be who someone is, but what they believe and what they can do.  Any American – race, creed color, gender, sexual persuasion, and orientation, whatever – should be welcome…  We are all Americans.”


The law has not yet caught up to the historical as well as present reality of war.  We acknowledge that few in the military and government are anxious to rekindle the debate: Congress and this President say they will defer to the generals and admirals on these issues; the Defense Department has so far deferred to Congress.  But now is the time for leadership. Admiral Mullen and the other Joint Chiefs owe it to our troops to recognize the truth on the ground, respect the honor of our women Soldiers and our gay and lesbian Soldiers, and acknowledge the service that they are already rendering.

Simply, all military jobs should be open to all Soldiers who are qualified, competent, and able to perform them.  Nothing more, nothing less.  The American people and our military can handle the truth.  It is time to change the rules and let women, gays, and lesbians serve as full participants. Tell Congress it’s time to correct the law.

LT. Dan Choi & Donna McAleer

Lieutenant Dan Choi graduated West Point in 2003.  He is an Iraq combat veteran, Infantry officer, and fluent Arabic speaker.  Choi is the co-founder of Knights Out, a group of gay and lesbian West Point grads and their allies. He has been recommended for discharge after coming out publicly as gay earlier this year.

Donna McAleer graduated West Point in 1987 and served as a Military Police Officer.  She is the author of the forthcoming book Porcelain on Steel: Women of West Point’s Long Gray Line.

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  • I DON'T KNOW WHAT MADE YESTERDAY SO DIFFERENT BUT I FINALLY PINPOINTED THAT VOICE I HAVE PROLLY BEEN HEARING FOR MONTHS AND MONTH AND MONTHS. I JUST NOTICED IT TWO DAYS AGO BUT IT'S THE HEATER I KNEW IT WAS THE PEOPLE UPSTAIRS I JUST DIDN'T KNOW WHERE. WHAT IS WRONG WITH BLACK PEOPLE? I'VE NEVER DUN ANTHING TO THEE BUT B NICE TO THEM, AND STEP AWAY WHEN IT WAS TYME. I CAN HEAR HIM U KNOW U GOT IT. U ALRYTE. I CAN ONLY IMAGINE WHAT IT'S LIKE WHEN I'M SLEEPING. THIS IS UNBELIEVABLE. WHAT WOULD MAKE A GROWN FIFTY YEAR OLD COUPLE WANNA PLAY WITH ME AND MY BABY LIKE THAT. THE OWNER TOLD ME THE LAST PEOPLE THAT LIVED HERE WAS CRAZY. FANCY THAT. FYI HE'S NOT THE OWNER ANYMORE PLCE WENT INTO FORCLOSURE A MONTH AFTER I MOVED IN MAYBE HE WAS TIRED OF THE HEADACHE
  • 12/12/2012 IS COMING!!!...SO PEOPLE LIGHTEN UP!!!
  • As anywhere, sexual preference should be kept private. They have "don't ask, don't tell" for a reason. Not everyone is going to agree with you. That's life. I have never met any professional that had to make it a point to tell everyone in the world he/she is homosexual. Your job is and should always be kept separate from your personal life.
    • Dear Military Wife,
      seriously? when others are talking about their girlfriends or wives, they arent exactly keeping their sexuality private. and how lucky for you that you can have use the name military wife. what is my partner supposed to use? Militarty Secret Not Allowed to be Talked About Same Sex Partner?
    • you should check this out if you really think that remaining silent is the answer.
      the military should be reprimanding behavior not orientation.

      http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2009/10/09/AR2009100902570.html?hpid=opinionsbox1
  • This is one of the reasons why we as African Americans continue to chase our tails instead of mobilizing in our communities. Lack of critical thinking skills. The issue is "don't ask, don't tell" and whether President Obama will repeal it.



    President Obama is only five months away from completing his first year of his four year term. What happened to the "community" saying we'd give him time? Why are we pressing this issue as needing to be addressed right now? I fully support repealing the rule because (and this is where 99% of commentors don't understand) individuals are losing their jobs, rank, and pension because of this rule. And this rule is not consistent...you can sue a company for the same action. But I feel as if the President has more pressing issues to address e.g. HEALTHCARE, the economy, and the wars before he can tackle this issue.

    • Yes you can Sue a company for such Discrimination BUT.....In the United States Military you Sign a Contract to be Governed by MILREGS & the UCMJ if you violate the Rules set forward in either you are in violation of your "CONTRACT" with the US Govt, EVERYONE who enlist or accepts a Commission Gay, Straight, white, Black whatever No exceptions! It Don't take a whole lotta Brain to figure out that this cats out for attention i wonder how many paychecks he returned to the Army since he was so Disgusted by this Rule!And the Black community Does not need to make any Deals with the Devil to move forward!
  • As a member of the United States Navy, I do not agree with the gay rights entering the military. We live in such close quarters and in bootcamp we are required to shower with eachother. The military is a place of work and should not have anything to do with sexual orientation. I would like for them to keep it how it is. Privately
    • It's idiotic statements like this that crack me up. The person you shower next to at the gym could be gay. LBGT are everywhere outside of the military as well. Are you telling me you're so fine a gay man would have to hit on you in the shower? So ignorant... this type of attitude is just antisocial.
    • In addition, people seem to think that when a person is GAY, they automatically are attracted to EVERYONE of the same sex. gays have their own preferences, as well. you may not be his type. get over yourself.
    • Dear Taj,
      What are you really afraid of? Do you think you are going to be raped?
      The military should censor conduct, not orientation.
      The policy as it is not allows gay people in the military. They just cant SAY so.
      So you are already bunking and showering with gays. How does them being able to
      talk about there partner or being allowed to be photographed at a gay event suddenly
      change the dynamic? If you really think about it, it's YOU that can't handle it. And that's something you need to figure out on your own.
  • I say to you Lt. Choi please get out of the military! In fact I want all on my LGBT people to get the f*ck out and let these HETEROSEXUALS DIE! Seriously, the military is not a joke. So if these assholes don't see the value of gays in the military by now f*ck them! My partner got out of the military in 2002 and never looked backed, except for what she can get because she served this raggedy ass country. So again f*ck YOU HETEROSEXUALS I hope you all come back amputees!
    • Without us heteros, who'll make the gays? God didn't make yall gay: f-d up or otherwise neglectful parents, upbringing and poor decision making did that. So i say again with us normal folk, who is gonna make the babies, yall busy playing with each other.
    • Here is what pissed me off with this topic: how do you, a man, suck dick and get f*cked in the ass and question Obama's manhood?
    • as much as i am a supporter of equal HUMAN rights for all people, homosexual and heterosexual - I have to say, this is not a good representation of homosexuals and surely not advantageous to your argument (based off of your comments).

    • Charles even though you are a stupid ass hole even that is not enough to make your "baby mama" a lesbian. Guess what dumb asses you can have sex with the opposite sex and STILL be gay. Sexual "intercourse" is NOT the same as "sexuality"

      Further, I know plenty of gays and lesbians have CHILDREN. As a matter of fact...didn't I see your MOTHER getting her "lick-her" license. Lmao!
    • That was a pitiful comeback, but then what can I expect from a moron. Gays with kids, look stupid the b*tch was an avid dick chaser, got her ass beat up by her last boyfriend and suddenly turned gay. So f*ck off. You don't even know the details, I have seen many of you idiots metamorph to gay just cuz they are hedonists. So f*ck off.
  • it shouldnt matter if your gay or not.
    if u want to serve your country and stand up for what you belive in then do it with pride and your head high
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  • God is the ultimate and sovereign judge for sin. Homosexuality is sin by His order; it is not decided by public opinion or deceived/false clergy. Changing societies do not dictate God's standards. Sin is defined by God for us in the Bible. It is the source for what God says is holy and righteous or sin and abomination. Hebrews 13:8 states that God is the same yesterday, today, and forever; he does not “go with the flow.”

    • THANK YOU!!!
    • Ahh shut that sh*t up! That bible quotes your going to hell nonsense we off that!, you people are horrible human beings it makes me want to invent robots. A Sin is everyone boy, lies,stealing,trickin,etc. Oh let's not forget man who lay with woman on their monthly is an abomination you go straight to a so-called place "hell" i'm pretty sure millions of men sleep with woman on their period so let's not go there!..Who cares what you do in life the importance of it is what you get out of it. Stop worrying about what people are doing as far as their sexual orientation, your not sexing them so hop off!, Plus it's a war going on! why does it matter if a gay man or lesbian is protecting my country their sacrificing their life for us! and we turn around and slap them in the face!! because of their sexuality? does that make sense? War is a sin itself violence killing come on Hypocrites do your job right!
    • dude shut the f*ck up and go pray in a hole. grow a pair than come back and say some b*tch sh*t like that f*ckin p*ssy
    • could this muthafucka be more ignorant?
      it shouldnt matter if your gay or not.
      if u want to serve your country and stand up for what you belive in then do it with pride and your head high
    • and if we're quoting the bible - we should we still be stoning our children to death if they disobey.

      "If a man have a stubborn and rebellious son, which will not obey the voice of his father, or the voice of his mother ... Then shall his father and his mother lay hold on him, and bring him out unto the elders of his city ... And they shall say unto the elders of his city, This our son is stubborn and rebellious, he will not obey our voice; he is a glutton, and a drunkard. And all the men of his city shall stone him with stones, that he die. "
      - Deuteronomy 21:18-21

      AND...
      we should also stone everyone that works on Sundays -

      "They found a man that gathered sticks upon the sabbath day. ... And the LORD said unto Moses, The man shall be surely put to death: all the congregation shall stone him with stones.... And all the congregation brought him without the camp, and stoned him with stones, and he died; as the LORD commanded Moses." - Numbers 15:32-56
    • teadough: Here is what cracks me up. People act like the bible was evil and caused problems on this planet. It was people and their differing views and beliefs. Quote the bible and you know what, spare the rod, spoil the child. THINK HARD: The more lax we get as a society and bestow more and more rights unto children who by their definition lack the understanding needed to execute proper judgment, is the more society gets screwed. Remember the days when everybody knew everybody, if you cut school and ran into some obscure associate of your family you knew they were gonna rat u out. Now adults are afraid of kids??? f*ck THAT WHOOP SOM GOTTDAM ASSES AROUND HERE. Keep the whole world in check. Many of the evil people history has shown us were spoiled to the core, vain and cold. It was with the bible and discipline that kids stayed in line. And if they don't they get treated like they should. Freedom is and has always been conditional. Why oh why do people act like God is supposed to adapt to us when it is the other way around? Why do people treat anyone who quotes the bible like soome archaic fool who should be done away with? Whenever one of our ancestors thought to treat adults and the elderly so cruel as we do today, we would receive communal punishment. EVERYONE NEEDS TO READ THINGS FALL APART. Get a sense of your roots, where WE come from. God is real, community is all we have after Him. Divide and conquer and the Devil is doing a damn good job at it, cuz wow are we divded.
  • It is said that there must be a balance in these two forces. Without the Feminine, the Masculine is apt to act without restraint, order, or reason, resulting in chaos. The Feminine alone, on the other hand, is apt to constantly reflect and fail to actually do anything, resulting in stagnation. With both the Masculine and Feminine working in conjunction, there is thoughtful action that breeds success. which point out that both the Feminine and the Masculine fulfil each other.[20]

    • Eloquent. Insightful. And true. Thanks for that food for thought.
    • Ok Obe won knobe, you speak off a book of philosophy which by the way is always and debate of reason and fiction, noone admits philosophy is true anyway! so keep your opinion to yourself homie, people like you i despise.
  • Get Off Obamas NUTSAC He cant answer every stupid ass question can he do his thang? www.dontknow3.com
  • CONTINUED:

    I am a grad student in Buffalo, & for the first time ever, some lezzies decide they wanna test sh*t and make out in the middle of the hall way? Why? Str8 couples catch hell for that? Why shouldn't the homos? Why do they need attention so f*cking badly? I know people are gonna jump on this in their defense, but so what. If my kid turned gay, first I'd talk about it, assess them, then approach them biblically, if they still didn't get their mind right, f*ck it & be out. We don't need each other if that is the case. I am not gonna walk around with a dumb look on my face cuz my kid is gay all of a sudden. By the way, my kids mom-turned-dike, she was living with a girl with 2 kids too. When did they know they were gay their whole lives? C'mon son. I love pu$$y like any normal guy but gays are living in a delusion. If we were meant to f*ck each other in the ass then babies would come from there. Everything God makes has a function, the only purpose to homosexuality is pleasure. I feel for them cuz they have an overdeveloped Id driving them. Take it from a Psychoanalytical perspective & you'll see.
    • Dude u just sound like a saltly dude who girl left im and went with another girl. suck it up lil baby. you cant come at anyone biblically because you cherry pick what you want out of that "good book" lol. but im not going to jump on that level with you because im sure by ur pervious post lack the intelligence of knowledge with said subject...anways...suck it up dude..ur girl left u for another girl....GO AND GET ANOTHER ONE...fvck boy crying over spilled milk...would it be differnt if ya home boy was dyckin her down?.....
    • Appearently you cannot read: I said she turned lezzie after the dude she got with AFTER ME beat her ass regularly. When I broke up with her she still liked guys, fool. She didn't leave me for anybody. Biblically, listen punk, you haven't got have the knowledge I gained from studies from the bible, in school, college and grad school plus my life. Wow, how dumb do you sound, judging me and you know nothing about me at all. I don't pick what I want to follow from the bible, its there and that's it. I don't believe homosexuality as being an invention of God's. I also don't condone fornication, but when I was a young man, my hormones got the better of me often. See fool that's part of how I learned--thru experience. U sound like u just lay there and let people do what they want to your punk ass. Clearly you don't read anything, much less what I wrote dumbass. I am earning my doctorate degree right now, what r u doing, taking it up the ass? Good for u. Let your line die off with u. Too stupid to exist.
    • No need for all dat language from either one of you to get your point across. Yes the Bible does preach against homosexuality and it doesn't take a rocket science to figure it out...whether he is upset or not, the fact is that he did take the initiative to learn from his experience, which is something we all should do. Besides the childish bickering between the two of you for minute things, Charles your post is a good one. Good luck on ya Ph D bruh...just dont allow people to get the best of you...im out
    • First off i don't believe you, you need more ppl lol. You misspelled "dYke" plus you call yourself biblicial using slurs like that? hmmm, i smell Hypocrite! no wonder alot of black people dislike going to church and i don't mean gay people because they do go, i'm speaking for the ones who don't, it's Hypocrites like you so 'holy spiritual' people who really aren't because #1 you judge and use slurs and cussing,etc..stop using god as your example of questioning peoples mishaps get over it! she dumped you and went to someone else, and assume she was gay, which i don't believe she is, The term "Bi-sexual" might be her, because noone 'Turns gay' i don't know what world you live in, but people either knew they were gay are been gay a long time ago and didn't tell anyone. And as far as fornication lol Everybody does that! who said you was suppose to get married to love someone? not everyone is meant for somebody some hate marriage. You don't believe homosexuality as an invention? LOL omg smh neither was war but everybody does it! fighting,battling,hating, but yet and still it's an emotion and god gave us our free will..You should thank god for alot of things instead of destroying other peoples rights, gay people doesn't cause any harm, were all different, not everyone was meant to get along so stop assuming everybody will. What you don't like doesn't make it bad, it makes it your choice not to like it.
    • niqquh ill fuccc u up shut ur p*ssy ass up ya f*ckin herb the only relationship uve ever had is with ur right hand so shut the fuckk up
    • Holy crap u r some kind of fool. Hey ignorant fool, I feel bad for Jay-z with u using his nickname like this. What a shame! Trust when I say, u couldn't hurt me kid. U nothing about me and who I am. Don't take sh*t for a weakness. That's why the human race is suffering so. Too many people underestimate others and overestimate themselves. What a p*ssy! On the internet talking tough.
    • Ok Pariz, 1. DYKE is a slang term u f*ckin prat. It is actually spelled dike.

      2. Gay people are not born that way you stupid f*cking idiot.

      3. Once again u niguhs can't read: she didn't dump me and she went to another dude after me, then after he beat her up more than once then she opted to f*ck with chicks. ONLY CHICKS. She don't f*ck dudes anymore, She dresses like a guy and it fucks with my daughter's head. My daughter doesn't even want to see her anymore. Its serious. This gay sh*t yall palying with has real consequences that no one considers---like the kids.

      If homosexuality was natural, why can't gay people make babies with each other?

      TO THE OTHER PERSON: God as a philosophy that's funny. Its people like u that helped to screw this world into a hole.

      Since I first started commenting on this website's varied articles, I have encountered talented writers, thoughtful people, and complete and utter idiots. What shame. That's the problem with the internet, just cuz everyone has an opinion doesn't mean we all want to hear it read it or absorb it. Who told these people their opinion matters? Oh yeah the constitution said u can speak freely, so why not think b4 u speak? And b4 people tell others about their spelling they should check their own.

      I never said or portrayed being super righteous. I am a man. I have lived. I have had many women, I have beat the crap out of a lot of guys who thought they could take me on. I have 2 bachelor degrees and years in the music biz. I decided to become a college professor and I am laughing at the idiocy I have found here.
    • My whole thing about this is noone actually knows what GOD wants besides the commandments...i believe some stuff in the bible but not all. They change around the Bible so much adding new stuff and taking stuff out, but I honestly don't see nowhere in the Bible that says "If you gay you will go to hell" if you can find that statement in the bible for me than i'll totally agree with you 100% I really understood when people say "Gay People" arent we all susposed to be equal so why do seperate them from society?
    • Being gay is not approved by God. Read Sodom/Gomorrah, the men’s description. Did it sound cool? I get what u mean, many changes, it makes ppl not know what 2 believe. U want God's real words get a bible written b4 King James's version. He altered it for political gains. As 4 gay ppl being separated I understand can't we get along. The problem is: social deviation. When a person does something outside what society deemed acceptable what can we do 2 prevent the spread of that behavior? Ostracize them. We do it 2 criminals, got a problem with that? I am not equating homosexuality with murderers but God said hate what He hates luv what He luvs. He still luvs ppl who have chose that lifestyle like the rest of us, He luvs ppl not the sins we commit. Some disagree, but being gay is a choice. U pay 4 the choices u make. A dude tried 2 rob me in NYC, I cut the guy's face up, I got arrested. But I caught that cuz I shouldn't have had a weapon in the 1st place. It’s like planning to sin. I can say it’s for protection but come on. I deviated from what is acceptable. And African tribes have societal rules 2, b4 anyone tries to jump on who makes rules. Now I said b4 no one has the right 2 attack a gay person for being gay. God destroyed those cities, n he has the right since He made everything. What He didn't make was a person to be gay. Ppl do that themselves, like a black guy who chose to b like an oreo. U don't say he was born that way do u? What about tomboys who grow up get married n had kids? It’s about preference n engaging in sex w/o the intent of making a baby (married) is a sin. So since gays can't make a baby together, what reason do they have for their actions? Sum think its ignorant talk, why cuz ur on some everything is peace mindset. Sorry, everything is not peace. Can't u see. Humans were meant 2 b divided so the weak/the evil can get separated from the good. And I am not saying I am good, I have done much evil in my 32 years. But I still knew right from wrong.
    • Thank you. People are so ignorant with their contradictions! There are a multitude of biblical concepts people have no problem with, e.g. pre-marital sex between heteros. But you bring up homosexuality and these same sinners start waving a bible. Pathetic!
    • True a Sin is a Sin, But the real issue is did Choi Violate his contract with the government...The answer is yes! You Don't get to pick and choose which rules you will follow in the service.
  • Let's be clear the title is offensive. Obama was born poor, his parents were PhDs-by definition they are not generally wealthy or well off even! He is a self-made Black man with a wife that made her own $$ too! THIS IS WHAT WE MEN DO. Blowing a man & gettin butt-- by a man is not manly. True gender & sexuality has no place in the military. But don't ?ion his manhood to pump up someone who gave it away. I don't support homosexuality, gay marriage or civil unions. I KNOW THAT NO ONE IS BORN GAY. I watched dozens of girls switch. Hell my daughter's mother did it after she got her ass beat up by the guy after me. She has 2 kids, mine & his, I got custody of mine, & she fucks girls with toys. How is that natural? Why do lesbians dress like men? Did u want to be a guy? Is it penis envy to the 10th power? Why do guys dress like women & act even more dramatic them girls? Sorry yall don't blame God for your mistakes, just answer for them. He did not make u gay, u chose it for what ever reason u have. I don't condone people hurting gays or even ostracizing them. I think such actions only make them feel less like members of society & pushes them deeper into their lifestyle. I have seen it. I think everyone deserves happiness & the opportunity to be somebody. So keep that gay sh*t in your area & I'll keep my str8 sh*t in mine & we don't have to argue about it.
    • Just to let you know I have no problem with Obama or thing you said but does anyone know that Obama is not black? lol I think its funny reading most of the comments but he isnt google it and see the ethneity of his parents
    • I think it is funny how for 600 years, if a person had 1 black parent or grandparent whites considered them black. In the 20th century, the mixing continued and these kids had white grandparents that called them n*gger. Now because Obama is the prez, now he's not black??? How?? Sorry real and knowledgable black people know he's black cuz his daddy is black, his complexion favors one color. He labeled himself accordingly, and instead of running from it, he married and procreated with Black woman. See, he identifies himself as a Black man. How can white people tell us what makes us black? Didn't they make that 1/8th rule? All long as one of your ancestors were black so are you! U better get up on it. Stop listening to Beck and Limbaugh, they'd rather u stay struggling while they make money from talking sh*t in support of HMOs. They are on the payroll don't doubt it.
    • thank you charles for that reply. i commend you for that. Especially the part where u said even though u dont condone or support the lifestyle, you dont support violence against them either. That was very well spoken and thoughtful. Again...no need to argue over petty stuff. life is too short and the more important issues behind them ends up never being answered. take care.
  • MEMO TO THE GAY COMMUNITY:
    OBAMA is a known bottom,( just ask Hill Harper and Rahm Emanuel)
    So ....where will the respect come from unless you remain his top, gay community?
    note: most closeted down low bi-racial bottoms always marry un- attractive women that are poorly dressed like Michelle Obama.
    • That was pitiful. You attack both of them because they were smarter than you and probably look better than you. It wouldn't surprise me if u were just some racist white boy or an envious black boy. Either way you're a piece of sh*t. Michelle is far from ugly, plus over 40 and still has a body. Barack gay? Get real. Save that down low sh*t for them dudes in LA and ATL. The white house finally has a black guy packing heat in his head and evidently elsewhere (cuz his wife ain't rolling with lil ones) and all u can do is hate. Sprry the old guy and the cute retard didn't win. But its time for reason to prevail.
  • Yours truly Mr. ReggieReg in the house for the first time. Yo I dont think being a man has anything to do with President Obama recognizing gay heroes. I feel your sentiment but how do we know if a soldier dies or comes home if he was or is gay and if he or she is why is it important for that person to be nationally recognized as anything but a PERSON. Thats whats really important isnt it? To be recognized as a person that gave or put his or her life on the line for their country. Wheather the person is gay or not is a non issue. If U are part of the gay community your own self respect will shine. Homosexuality is not new, there are accounts of it in the Bible, because being gay is not normally something that is physically evident like skin color or ethnic descent, the main thing is that u be you, no badge of honor is required for that.

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