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There are a lot of great entertainers who do great things. Bill Cosby is one of them. He has always used his voice to right what he thought was wrong. However, I believe that too often Mr. Cosby has wrongly placed the blame.

Bill Cosby is an example of someone from the older generation who has consistently blamed the poets and asked suffering community members to bare the full burden of guilt for the struggles that they endure. It is certainly not that he and the rest of the elders don't care, because they do. In fact, their intentions are pure and good. All the things they say are actually true. What they don’t understand is that the young people who they criticize did not create their own realities. They did not create the crumbling education system that we school them in. They did not create the drug epidemic and drug wars that have resulted in a dysfunctional family structure. They did not create the health care crisis that does not treat them. They did not create the culture of violence that they fall victim to.

While it is true that each one of us can make a change at any moment, it is equally true that at every minute we are all doing the best we can. If you knew better, you would do better. Therefore, those who care and have resources could/should work to create the kind of support systems that could inspire change. From the preacher who lifts our consciousness and asks us to reach for strength to the politicians and philanthropists who put programs in place to support our growth. When the President brought the Cosby attitude to his NAACP speech a few months ago, I was disappointed. It is nice to tell black people to stand up, but isn’t that really Min. Farrakhan's job? The President's job is to tell them to walk to the program that he placed on their corner. It is our job to instill the inspiration that gets a young person to walk into the program and not stand on the corner.

We love Cosby and all the older types who judge and blame the poets or culture for the sadness that the poets point to from their realities. From a place of love, I am letting the older generation know that they must admit that young people are less racist, less sexist, less homophobic, less prejudice than their parents and far less than their grandparents. Mr. Cosby, you know that your generation is carrying a lot more dirt, you are all just smart enough to cover it up. Old people are quicker to destroy the planet, abuse the animals and promote wars and then act like young people are violent. Young people are more compassionate, giving, promote gay rights, animal rights, human rights, protect the environment and want to end the wars. When they point out the contradictions that come up and say it on a record and say it LOUD, you can’t believe it! The culture and the poetry is a mirror of the realities that they expressing. Instead of criticizing, let us recognize the faults of adults, because until that happens you all will continue to turn off young people from your message and further alienate them from your generation.

I love Bill Cosby. Who doesn’t? I love him so much that is why I am writing this blog. But this is not just about Mr. Cosby. I know that tomorrow there will be headlines that read “Russell Simmons attacks Bill Cosby.” But let’s be clear, this is a call-out to all the adults who are judging more and listening less to the beautiful, progressive voices that come from our young people…Bill Cosby just happens be on the front line. This is about two generations reconciling...I guess because of my age, you would say that I am stuck on the other side, but I will always recognize that young people can use support instead of judgment. We need to have the hard conversation and both sides need to listen – if you need an office to do it in, my door is always open.

with great love
all things are possible

-Russell Simmons

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  • One would expect that those who have the resources to create and inspire change would do so effectively, but it is also true that such people’s intention what ever it may be would also be influenced by their individual knowledge, beliefs, emotional strength and other motives i.e. (acquisition of wealth or the need for attention) which sometimes does not reflect morality but expediency.

    Both the old and new generation have all been susceptible to the harsh realities of humankind and if we need to change for good, it can only be done effectively with a collective desire.

    The adage that “Charity begins at home” means that as a parent you’re the chief executor of good values. Train your children with the love, morality and discipline needed to produce a quality person and that would make a good impact in their lives and in the life of those they interact with, even in their school and work environments. If a person were well trained that person would not be easily influenced by immorality and wickedness. How you bring up a child would determine who the child becomes and not necessarily the evolution in technology.

    The limitations of the modern children, in addition to the progression of technology are also influenced by the history of their parents and grandparents. It’s okay to enlighten your children of your past experiences but please do so with caution as you may be diminishing their morals and deterring their growth by imposing on them those ill feelings from your evils of the past.


  • Russell and Cosby are both right. However, it’s important to acknowledge the fact that we the young ones are a new generation, born into an era of evolution in technology and the complexities of conflicts and deterioration in morality that string along with it. The old generation also indulged and nurtured the ignorance of humanity and suffered from the same ignorance, though quite different from that which transpires in the modern society.

    Every individual’s perception of and reaction to a situation are only determined by his or her grasp of it, mental and emotional state, upbringing, environment, culture and experiences (good and bad)

    The aforementioned are to be seriously considered when we voice out our opinions and analyze and criticize situations.

  • Yeah Russ I'm with you on this one. We need a financial revolution though like the Rush Card.

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  • I agree - It's easy to sit back and judge people from a mansion after you've been out tha game for a few years. I think he should spend about a month in tha projects right now and try to find a job out here. I bet he would ease up a lil bit. I come from a foster care system in New York that left me in tha streets when I turned 18. He will never know what that's like. Big up to Russell for not judgin and not bein afraid to express his opinion against a giant like Bill Cosby. Who used to do movies about guys in tha hood lookin for lost lottery tickets at tha juke joint. Don't forget where u came from Silky Slim.(thats's tha name of tha hustler Bill Cosby played in Uptown Saturday Night)
  • I too, sit on the fence at times. But here is a man who has given millions of dollars to black colleges to invest in young people and he probably feel its investment went down the drain. Through his various TV shows he always promoted positivity among young people.

    It's only natrual for someone born in 1937 to feel this way.
  • Bill Cosby is still the man. His sense of humor was greatly diminished by the loss of his son. He's still as great a man as ever, but he'll never forget his son.

    I can't even begin to say how pissed off I was when I heard about it. To find out it was a white guy who killed him during a petty robbery made it even worse. God damn that greedy man. God damn him. I'm not the one to judge, but that's all I can say.

    Maybe Enis Cosby's life and legacy can be recognized in some way that helps people feel the presence of his personality presently and into the future.
    • After Bill Cosby spoke out against giving Markhasev the death penalty, Markhasev was sentenced to life in prison without the possibility of parole, plus 10 years.

      Seems like Bill Cosby is a more patient man than many people realize. None of this takes away from Russel's commentary, but I'm just trying to understand why Bill Cosby is such a stern leader. They're both right, but perhaps young people could do more to understand Bill Cosby rather than the other way around.
  • If your heart is set on the desires of this world you will never be happy. I am speakin to us parents. Our children are like human recorders. They know when you are happy & sad. They can tell when you have givin up on them. An inconvenient truth. Everyone has a thorn in the flesh. It is time for us to accept God's sufficient grace be content and raise our children in the way they should go......Good Days
  • OUR YOUNG PEOPLE NEED DIRECTION AND MANY PARENTS ARE NOT AVAILING IT TO THEM!



    IF NOT YOU.... THEN WHO ??!

    YES, WE NEED TO PULL OUR YOUTH FROM THE DESPAIR IN THE STREETS TO A BIG WONDERFUL INVITING WORLD THAT IS THERE WAITING FOR THEM!



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  • This couldn't have been said better.
  • Cosby and Russell are ignoring key components to our demise as a people. Africa and raparations! What makes these brothers think that we have stay in the comfines of amerikkka and try to make sense out of this mess we live in. "Parents have to do better, schools have to do better, mental institutions" have to do better, prisons have to do better and on and on and on to the break of dawn. Yes, identify the problems, yes and offer no solutions. Should we march, should we gather, should we beg,should we demonstrate? No, we should leave this country and develop a paradigm in Africa. Africa is vast, Africa is beautiful, Parts of Africa are peaceful and free and willing to accept us to come home, develop AFrica and create institutions for our children our people. Russell, you got money, Bill you got money. Build institutions in Africa and create businesses so we as a people can thrive. Demand raparations, fight for raparations while a plan is in place to seperate. Where is your vision? Minister Farrakhan has touted Africa, but does not have the resources to implement a true African Nation. Russell, Bill, Oparah, Bob Johnson, and many more do.



    Stop feeling you are not AFrican and unite with Africa.
  • Mr. Simmons, I totally agree. You and I are cut from the same cloth. It's always about the next generation. If we give them support and opportunity they are destined to success. I so look forward to one day meeting you in person. I have a lot of things I would like to disuss with you. In the meantime,

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  • Russell wants Cosby to cut this young generation some slack but slack is what they have been given for far too long with the result being a detriment to the black race as a whole. Russell's comments do a disservice to the young generation as has Cosby's generation leaving the youth of today thinking that the world owes them something and that they are entitled to an opinion about everything when they need to listen to those who have come before them who have the experience and knowledge to know better!
  • I agree with Russ.



    The old folks should have supported the burgeoning of Hip Hop when the young folks controlled it. Now another people is profiting off of what could have possibly been entirely ours. Bad minded. Moses and the Jews wandered for forty years in the wilderness to eliminate that old school of thought. We need some purging ourselves. Peace & Blessings.



  • It's simple: 66% of black children are born out of wedlock. Black children increasingly under achieve in school. Schools are overcrowded by children that wouldn't exist if they hadn't been born out of wedlock. Under achieving students tend to perform poorly in society and more frequently enter the criminal justice system (90% of felons were born out of wedlock). Under achieving students tend to drop out more and tend to reproduce more quickly continuing the cycle. The solution to virtually every problem affecting black people in America: stop making/having children out of wedlock.
  • Well put Russell. Although I admire Mr. Cosby as most of America, however I do believe his age is catching up to his mouth. He reminds me of my grandmother,the older she got the smaller or less her filter became. Sometimes, we (those with opinions) should step outside of their situations (as Rhianna did), and live in the shoes of those being criticized.

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