Detail Page

Tell Him to "Put a Ring On It"

Tell Him to "Put a Ring On It"

brownsugar28.blogspot.com How many of you ladies out their hollering you want to get married are telling your men to "Put a ring on it?"

Comments

  • BrownSugar28's Avatar

    Why are titles a problem?

    What's the fear of calling someone your girlfriend?

    reply to comment
  • Talkdatishgirl's Avatar

    I dont want to make a man marry me...Feel me but when Im ready, he'll know...

    reply to comment
  • Testbet's Avatar
    Testbet says... 36 days ago Score: 0 Grind this Comment Trash this Comment

    It's better to be by yourself than hanging some guy who doesn't want you. Read the article. No where does the author suggest pressuring or rushing into anything. All she is saying is if you want something, go get it. If the guy doesn't want marriage, move on

    reply to comment
  • latj's Avatar
    latj says... 36 days ago Score: 0 Grind this Comment Trash this Comment

    It's true...to many men think they can use their "swagger" and stick around and just "be there" and not "put a ring" on a woman's finger. That is why there are so many single mother's out there. I say stand up for yourself. I did it and I've been married twenty years and both my Sons are grown, I wasn't having kids without the ring. Women act like they are "afraid" to let a man know that having kids comes with a HUGE commitment and part of that IS marriage. Wake up woman....because when he gets tired of you...he can ease on down the road and do it with someone else and later "put a ring" on someone elses finger who DOES put the pressure on him!!! Great song Beyonce...once again you've come through for us women!!!

    reply to comment
  • JustGrinding's Avatar

    Thats's bad advice. Never put the pressure on a man early in the relationship by bringing up marriage or titles. When he's ready you both will know. Come on ladies don't be fast and find yourself by yourself.

    reply to comment
    • BrownSugar28's Avatar

      When he's ready?

      Why is my life dependent on when he's ready?

      No one said bring up marriage or "titles" early in a relationship...asking however "what are you looking for," is a legitimate, non-threatening question.

      If I want a relationship and you don't...why I am I spending time with you?

      If you need to think about it...then you can think about it on your time and I'll be dating other people. Then holla at me when you have a decision and hope that I'm not with someone else.



      reply to comment
    • hallway4life's Avatar

      Why can't women just be cool with the situation at hand?? If he isn't going anywhere, and he makes you happy, why do you need a title?? Once you get past the whole dating thing and you know that you are together, the just have fun with the situation for what it is. IF he wants to pop the question then it should be nothing to say yes, because you are enjoying your time with him!!

      reply to comment
    • hallway4life's Avatar

      But kids is a whole different topic that I'll just say. If you can take a baby out of her then you can make a lady out of her and get married!!

      reply to comment
Add Your Comment
Add Your Comment
Click to Add Comments

Recently Submitted

Global Grind Recommends

The Legal Grind