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Tila's Letter To The President

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Hello Everyone!

So today I woke up thinking about Dan Choi. I know a lot of you probably don't know who he is, so I just wanted to write a little blog to keep you all updated on things! Dan Choi  is considered a hero to many of us in the human rights movement.  Why? Not just because he went to West Point, or served a tour in Iraq, but because he is a BRAVE man who truly stands up for what he believes in, and as you all know by now, I highly admire people who like to break barriers and speak their minds!


On national television he PROUDLY told the world that he was a GAY soldier. *Standing Ovation*  But then soon after he announced that he was GAY,  the army IMMEDIATELY gave him the boot! Now keep in mind, this is a man who proudly enlisted himself in the army, possibly endangering his own life, just so that he could help protect our country and be a PROUD SOLDIER TO PROTECT AND SERVE THE AMERICAN PEOPLE! For him to get the boot just because of what gender he chooses to LOVE is absolutely RIDICULOUS to me! HORRID!  Unfortunately, he isn't the first to be discriminated against, and unless President Obama acts fast, and keeps his campaign promise to repeal the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell Policy" in the military, he will not be the last!



Being an openly bisexual woman myself and having a lot of close gay friends, I have always HATED that policy, which pretty much tells people that in order to serve our country, you have to live in secret.  You can't openly embrace the person you love or tell others about them.  What kind of message does that send? Well, clearly its one of shame. Very shameful and quite sad.



Think about it,  this outmoded policy sends a horrible message to young people, straight or gay, that the military is trying to recruit. It tells them that the military is an intolerant place that does not value  diversity, fairness, and equality. More than 12,500 gay and lesbian soldiers have been discharged since "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" began in 1993. The soldiers were brave enough to lay their lives on the  line to protect the country they love, and for all of us here in America, but they were not good enough live openly and proudly as they are.  The message that this sends, is that the military sees no problem with discrimination- and how is that "American" exactly? This country is supposed to be all about "EQUAL RIGHTS FOR ALL" So they should honor that commandment!  We have come a long way, fighting for equal rights so why stop now?



So now I am looking to our superhero President to do what is right! President Obama says that he will REPEAL the DADT policy, but so far, we don't have a date as of yet.....all we have is just a campaign promise that really gave us all hope during that time that a change was coming!  We shall all be free!  I for one, trust the words of our President. I trust that he will continue to fight for our rights from within the White House walls just like he promised he would. As a matter of fact, I would like to applaud him for extending partner benefits to federal Gay employees, calling on Congress to repeal the Defense of Marriage Act, meeting with Mathew Shephard's mom(the same Lady who turned away Perez Hilton for his recent anti-gay slur) about hate crimes, and repealing the HIV travelers ban...so yes, I will give Obama credit where it is due! Our guy, is on the move and I love him for it.

However, we still need a date Mr. Obama. When will you give us that date to repeal the DADT Policy and continue be the Superhero that you can be! We are here, we are queer, and its about time that the military gets used to it!!!  Discrimination is so 2000 and Late! The time is NOW!!!!!! YES WE CAN, BUT ONLY IF YOU CAN! I hope you get a chance to read this Mr. President! I know you have it in you to be one of the greatest Presidents our time!

Yours Truly,
Ms. Tila Nguyen


 

 


536 comments

  • Okay, come on seriously ppl. This is why most of the world hates america, I mean look at the way your all acting!! Tila may be a porn star but she is also a human being, which it seems the majority of the ppl that wrote on here arn't.You guys should have some heart for a fellow american trying to do good no matter whom they are! This is why wars are started because of snobs like you!! And for the outright crazys on here like the ones whom constantly write back to diss her and the ppl standing up for her, get a life I mean honestly if all you do in a day is bully I think you genuinely need help. Oh and ppl please go back to school and learn to spell.



    TILA: hun I am not gay but I do respect all that you are trying to do, These simpletons are exactly that, simple minded ppl whom obviously don't care about the world and the ppl that live in it. I watch your show when I can, and I like a few of your songs but the reason I do watch and listen is because I respect you and your choices. Sex is sex its human its natural those who believe otherwise are probably either virgins or just extremely sheltered ppl. I'm canadian and these issues aren't as bad here but they are here. Ppl are more accepted here, but that still doesn't mean its still not hard for them with all the bible thumping redneck fanatics in the world, I'm on your side you go girl :) Lots of love..
    • Me think you wanna try a bit of p*ssy pie. f*ck tila, she's a nasty slut.
    • lol anger issues much :)
  • f*ck Tila! Her nasty fat flat faced ass. Maybe she should stick to f*cking and sucking, something she is use enough at. Who gives a f*ck about her opinions, the President defiantly doesn't care about that hoe. and f*ck all y'all tuna eatin bitches who got something to say about my post. I love the hate, bring it....
  • i will not lower myself to ur level and hurl abuse bak, and know tht in the end life its self will get u.

    because its ppl like u guys tht will neva be happy,

    its ppl like u tht make the world hard for the good ppl tht r left to live in it.

    selfish ppl.

    ppl tht wld rather role in thier own sh*t and bring other ppl dwn than try and fix it and grow.

    we all live in this world together.

    and we r all learning the same things.

    and maybe if ppl cld try be a little more understanding.

    we cld all help each other.

    And the president may not write back.

    but wat wld life be if we didnt take any chances??

    at least she gives it a shot.

    You may not be part of the gay and lesbian society.

    but maybe ur an emo??

    or a pill head?

    young mum??

    an old lonley man?

    HIV positive?

    lost some1 to an illness??

    or lost some1 to suicide?

    maybe your family suffer from poverty??

    or maybe ur rich and hav neva felt love.

    we all fit under one/many of these never ending headings.

    tht then create judgment.

    all because some1 is different to you.

    or doesnt share ur beliefs.

    havnt u eva felt like u just wish some1 understood?

    found yourself feeling down for any reason?

    of course u hav, every1 has.

    and y wld u wana make some1 else feel that way?

    i wana high five all those ppl out there like tila who r who they are.

    who stand up 4 thier beliefs and fight for thier rights.

    all those ppl who hav realized tht thier hands ARE bigger than they look.

    and if they arnt big enough to help the world..dnt worry about every1 else and just worry about fixing urself.

    and dealing with ur clearly visible problems.

    wat eva the mind can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve.

    and may i point out tht even u who leaves a nasty comment and claims to hate tila has taken the time for wateva reason to read wat she rote.

    loving u bak tila
    • Thanks for the wonderful message. im glad someone has said what was needed to be said! thanks again.
  • gay people suck
    • I know tyler and we love it. why dont u suck a f*ckin cock too, u homophobic prick son of a b*tch!
  • I think it's a good idea to let ALL people be honest and to give them an oppotunity to love everyone they want... but do you really think that Obama'll read this letter? Is it serious for him now? Is it a COLOSSAL problem?

    Of cause I want all gays and lesbians to be given their rights. But is it real?
  • Tila Tequila thinks that the tactics used to get a friend's attention on myspace is the approach one must take to get the president's attention in a formal letter. Yes dear, discrimination is indeed "so 2000 and late." But TYPING LIKE THIS!!!! is so junior high. Now I am not sure if Tila graduated from junior high, but in the adult world, we use semantics and rhetoric to get our point across in a formal letter. Especially a formal letter to a president who happens to be the ultimate word smith.
    • "word smith" that's my word!!
  • Damn this kind of hatred is a wasted feeling that gets you no where...who are we to judge another persons soul and life choice...we seem to put ourselves higher than others regardless of our own ways...people will always fear what they dont understand or choose not to...
  • if you guys hate Tila so much then why are you on her blog in the first place?? She is taking the time to stand up for what she believes in, that will make a difference in the world, unlike you guys who are just going around hating, it just shows how you have no life and have to make everyone else's miserable. And Tila, I'm glad you are doing this, im bisexual too and i hate how people are always quick to judge you when they don't even know you. Or when they say "God hates you, your going to hell." People came to this country to have freedom of religion or to even not have a religion, so why force one religious group's beliefs upon them? Also, it has been scientifically proven that homosexuality is a way you are born, lesbians recieve an increase of testosterone in the womb, and gay men recieve an increase in estrogen, so why would God make something he is against? Thank you, and I wish you luck to get prop 8 repealed.
  • These are the most idiotic comments. Most of you are probably ignorant rednecks. It's so sad, education must have slipped 95% of the people writing the previous comments. It takes an insecure person to continuously talk negatively about someone else. Grow up and inquire about the things that truly matter and are important to society. It's scary to think that people like you really exist. FOR THE PEOPLE WITH INSANE COMMENTS:Tila and anyone else for that matter, are entitled to make a stand, whether you agree or disagree. If you were smart you would argue her counterpoint, instead of trashing her. You sound like politicians.
  • EXACTLY JadeLaBellissima!!!! You've been working BEHIND the scenes, not like Tila- everyone gotta know who she is!!! And dont just label her as a porn star, Tila is an artist and shouldn't be scrutinized for wanting to share her gorgeous self with the world.



    Maybe you should concentrate more on trying to promote your people, rather than leave infantile messages.
    • MISS TELIA IS JUST A PORN STAR! A NASTY ASS DICK SUCKIN FREAK. SO WHAT SHE HAD A COUPLE OF LAME ASS SHOWS, FURTHER SHOWING OFF THE WHORE SHE REALLY IS. STOP RIDING THAT b*tch DICK. OH, MAYBE YOU ONE OF THE HOES THAT FELL IN LOVE WITH HER ON A SHOT AT LOVE. WHO GIVES A DAMN ABOUT THAT NASTY ASS FREAK, THE PRESIDENT DOESN'T EITHER.

      PLEASE FFEEL FREE TO RETURN THE HATE....I LOVE IT
    • Can I get an AMEN!!!!!

      You gotta hear her on Twitter tryin to RaP! It's the funniest sh*t ever!

      These dick riders make me sick!

      Finally somebody keeps it real! The b*tch Is a porn star, not a celeb!

      What's wrong with spittin facts about this trash?

      Thanks And what!
    • YOUR ASS IS JUST MADE BECAUSE YOU DIDNT HAVE A COUPLE OF TV SHOWS AND YOUR A motherf*cking WANNA BE WITH NO LIFE WHO TRIES TO PUT PEOPLE DOWN.I GOT A COUPLE WORDS OF ADVICE FOR U IT DIDNT WORK.AND AS FAR AS HER BEING A PORN STAR UR JUST MADE THAT U DONT HAVE THE BODY SHE HAS U motherf*cking WANNA BE.f*ck U.AND FEEL FREE TO HATE CAUSE I EAT IT FOR BREAKFAST,LUNCH,AND DINNER.I LOVE U TILA.ILY.
  • Dear Tila Tequila.

    Forget those f*ckers that don't have a damn live. Hey peepz? you say: "uhhh tila, your not a celeb" ! but excuse me? did YOU guys have a tv-show? have you ever been looked up too? does ANYONE wants to read a book about YOUR life? no, i don't think so. But there are a lots of people that want to read tila's book, så back off.

    and hell yeah, she CAN use her body! becuz' her body is f*cking HOT. just because you are fat and have hair in your ears. tsk! seriously, peoples! Tila is f*cking greeat, and your all juust wasting your life with all that HATING.
    • Celebrities have talent, can act, sing etc. Anyone can be a porn star.

      FYI I have been a part of the music industry for 12 years working with celebrities behind the scenes and coordinAting events and promoting those with real talent.

      Tila is nothing but a Number you see on a bathroom wall for a BJ and needs to get off the speed.
    • for you information not anyone can be a porn star its actually a rough gig that most people arent able to do because you have to train your body to basically have an orgasm at will, hold and erection for long periods of time,and actually having sex in front of people is harder then you think thank you very much maby if you would look into facts of a certain line of work first before being an prick then people wouldnt hate you so much
    • Idiot, there is not one single sex tape with Tila in it.
      People calling Tila a porn star are so ignorant and stupid...
  • Hey Tila, kudos and i wish you luck in the future.

    i hope he does read it, it makes a valid point on self-expression
  • Are you kidding me? Tila (deep-throat) Tequila is a celebrity blogger who has the gall to think the president has the slight idea who she is????? Bwhaaaaaaa!

    I am sure him and his family do not gather around the TV to watch "A Shot at Love 1 and 2", so his daughters can look up to an over plastic looking inflatable f*ck doll for a woman, who claims to be bi-sexual but always ends up with a dick in her mouth before making decisions regarding the American people.

    Stick to what you know Tila...swallowing ga-gargling!

    You f*ck women to get attention from men, not because you are really into women. You are so WAF it makes no sense. You are far from a celebrity, celebs have talent, anyone can make porn and be strung out on meth like you. You are a cock rockin party pack b*tch. Nothing more. Your music is so ridiculous, that's why no real label promotes your wack ass. You are not hood b*tch, you can not ryhme and you don't know sh*t about the streets except working them for your pimp or copping your dope crackhead!

    You talk such gangsta sh*t, but real gangsta's move in silence and violence trashy ass b*tch. Like X said, so hide behind your keyboard and think the world wants anything more than some head from you b*tch cuz your p*ssy got feel like sticking your dick in a bowl of mash potatoes or throwing a hot dog down a hallway, your mouth is the only thing usuable on your used worn out gap of an ass.

    Find yourself b*tch before approaching someone like the President and stick to gettin your knees dirty and playing door knob giving everyone a turn.

    You live a sad life, and will never be anything other than another Superhead!
    • hey b*tch, who the f*ck you think you are for slammin' someone for speaking their mind!

      your a f*cking nobody so SHUT The f*ck UP!!!!

      I have a question for YOU now, is this how you cope with your Pathetic EXCUSE of a life??? Shove off ya Yank b*tch!!
    • Kudos to Tila's ghostwriter!
    • I'm a lesbian American ebarrassed by her making a bad name for people like me who truly struggle with GLBT issues and Tila knows no such struggle.

      Women like her give real lesbians a bad name as if we are all down for a 3-some!

      If you weren't thinking with your dick, you would understand.

      She makes me sick trying to push her way through as some sort of advocate for gay americans because she made out and screwed a few women for ratings on a Reality show! In the end she always ends up with a man so I don't want to hear sh*t she has to say about real issues that us gay Americans truly face in this country because she is just another sad case of Gay for a day until she gets the mans attention.

      Her whorish antics give lesbians a bad wrap!

      Kudos to her ghostwriter!

      Check her tweets on Twitter and you would see my point!
    • Well said..It is so true!
    • Thank you baby!

      Her tweets on Twitter are nothing but talking about this man or that man she is screwing or wants to screw. In addition to "watch me grind to this song" and how gangsta she is and gets paid to tweet (yea ok), then wants to come on here like she expects us to respect her for her mind. Whateva Man.......lol

      Quite ammuzing but an embarrassment to the GLBT community!

  • i love you Tila .
    i admire you so bad !

    please say something to me on my page in myspace or send me a email (leozinha_6@hotmail.com) . PLEASE !

    Love
    Eleonora

    xoxo
  • ME STILL THINK TELIA IS PATHETIC AND A BIG ATTENTION SEEKER. LETS BE REAL, HER CLAIM TO FAME IS OFF OF BEING A PORN STAR...SO WHO DO YOU THINK IS GOING TO TAKE THAT HOE SERIOUSLY?WHO GIVES A DAMN A ABOUT HER SPEAKING HER MIND,BUT SHE SHOULD STICK TO WHAT SHE KNOWS...f*cking AND SUCKIN.ME KNOW U DUCKS GO BE MAD AT THIS.
    • To:Chelle You're an idiot. First off,try,,,try, to pass a first grade reading/writing class before you attempt to slam someone for all to see. My 2yr old speaks better than that. Second, anyone regardless of who they are, has "opinion" rights. Sounds double standard because I just shot you down, I know. But,she wasn't harshing on anyone else. And finally, who gives a sh*t where she got her fame from? If she can use it to bring light to matters needing it, good for her! Oh yeah, and if she's so worthless, why are you reading her blogs and letters in the first place. Sounds like you're the one who needs to get a life and stop trying to make a name for yourself at other people's expense.
    • Me think u a b*tch!!! Me think u should calm down also, cause me did not make it past first grade. And me really don't give a f*ck! Enjoy the hate HOE.
    • ME THINK YOUR 2 YEAR OLD IS PROBALLY A b*tch LIKE IT'S MOTHER! YOU AINT SHOT sh*t DOWN HOE, GO SUCK A SWEET ONE b*tch! f*ck U AND THAT HOE TELIA.

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