RE: . What's the most important thing u look 4 in a person when u 1st meet them?
What strikes ur interest & why?
The word 'passionate' comes to mind. But as it is for most people, they think they're ready to find that someone. Most of the time, they're not. I think when people come to thinking they are ready to find someone, it's usually because of comfort, loneliness, convenience, & or prestige. Those are the wrong reasons as to why one wants to meet someone.
It seems that most people think that it is their way of expressing being passionate about life.
As i hear people say to others that they complete them, but that's just wrong.

Being passionate about life doesn't come from being in love with a person. Being passionate about life comes from you. As it is you who knows yourself better among all, until you are ready to express your passion to the level you want to be at, with someone who will go along with you. As for finding someone to love, wouldn't it be great if you could be with someone who could take you to the highest level that Love can take you to? When you know you can take it to that level, you know you're ready.

I look for a man who is confident about his demeanor and is well groomed and has nice teeth, that shows he has good hygiene.

What I look for 1st probably is their face, ya' know their smile then on to their shoulders...LOL. That sounds funny but I have a thing for football players. I am in my first real relationship at the age 21 and I found out that it is the different things about us that amaze me the most. Don't get me wrong they are annoying sometimes but that is where the work in our relationship comes in.

um...well ive actually never been in one before cuz im still looking for that perfect sumone,thats clearly not working,but i think I would lookalot at their personalit,I would love someone thats humble,loving, and maybe he would just happen to be good-looking,haha,but anyways luv u letoya!!!! And u can count on my buying Lady Love

All of you making comments on if you have things in common and all that is bullsh*t! LOL. The way you make a relationship work is dealing with your dislikes about your partner. How you deal with fights. How you respond and how well you overcome diversity in a relationship. Its that simple. IF you like something about a person there is nothing to work on there so compliment them on it and work on what you dislike about them. Just think about it. Its really simple!

Once you get pass physical attraction then you have to have chemistry. That comes in the form of conversation. Two people have to mesh mentally in order to have a long term relationship. One night stands and dates don't matter. Two people have to have something major in common in order to work in the long run. Other than that you will get bored. It's normal.

Hey Toya! I love you so much!

I'm Brazillian boy...The Brazil loves you and your songs! I want to buy your new CD, please sell the "Lady Love" here!



GOD bless you!



You are very special to me, you are a anjel, beautful, Big Woman, you are a SUPER WOMAN...



LOVE

ROCHA

stop looking and that special some1 will find u...

Love what you are doing can't wait to see the movie and buy the CD.

Hi Latoya I love your new single and the video, what attracts me first is the guys personality or how he comes acrosss if hes funny or can hold a good conversation, if hes is cute thats a plus, I have had my share of good and bad ,I learned the most from the bad ones however, looking at yourself first can help you figure out what you want in a relationship.

He has to have GOD in his life or he wont even understand me:) beyond that I love a man who has goals as well as acheivements. . .if a man makes me wana step my game up then that's the one I want to spend time with. . .and humor is a must, I get silly lol:)

The first thing i look for is looks ofcourse. If they pass then i look for things we both may have in common. After that you find out what their dreams are and what they are doing with their lives.

Hey Letoya!!!! First I wanna tell you you and your girls do a good job writting those songs because when i'm going through it with mines Letoya is going in the cd player!!! So thank you cause you brought me through alot. as far as your questions I feel like when I first met my husband or when I was dating I looked for Confidence, Personality, Intelect, and honesty I wanted to be sure that if i was going to entertain I was gonna use my time wisely. I think if a man can be strait up and talk to me and keep it 100 then he was worth a try. And I like someone who is funny like if they can make me smile and crack a joke non stop that is whats up to me cause i am funny myself .... take care girl and keep doing you cause you are hot!!! And when you sing those words when you be like is anybody else fed up I be in the car with my hand up!!!!

Well,well,well! I thimk for me the first thing i notice is him noticing me. Then before he gets eye contact he has to be clean not flashy just clean shoes,clothes net and clean nails. Then its the approach. Todays men have no idea how to appraoch a lady. They need to take a course. Im sure I am not the only chic that gets nice looking men come up to then and the first sentence leaves me looking for the EXIT. !1! P.s Letoya i love your music and style. Stay on the grind. I am a fan of all the dc members and i want to hear more music from all of you stay positive and stay friends life is to short don't feed haters.!1!

Of course the first thing is looks. I mean you have to have something to get your attention. After that is about the personality and ability to keep a conversation. I love to laugh so that is key as well.