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Before going to sleep last night, I was watching episode after episode of 'Sex and the City' until I passed out!  That show is one of my favorites because I can thoroughly appreciate the friendship and bond that is shared between the four main ladies! No matter what obstacles came their way, they still remained the best of friends and always had each other's back.

Outside of family, your friends should really be your extended family and those you can depend on and they can depend on you.  I've learned to be thankful for my TRUE friends that are there for me no matter what!

The people that have come in and out of my life, I count as lessons learned. Hurtful for me but it is reality that there were times when I used the word "friend" too loosely :(

But back to happy thoughts,  I appreciate my REAL friends and am very excited about tonights season premiere of Daddy's Girls 2...where you will see less of the fake and more of the real :)  

How have true friends played a role in your life?   Would love to hear your thoughts...  

Until my next blog,

Vanessa :) 

 

 


 

 

 


 

 

 

 

 


 


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  • Good morning lady! twitter? your giving up on me? "sarcasim" in your rich white lady voice well i"ve never" at least not since my birthday!

  • you are so fine your are beyond fine ur beatiful
  • watching the your show including run's house goes beyond just a normal reality show..i admire your family and the time you take to show the world that there's more behind the glitz and the glamour,keep up the good work



    nana amankwah

    ghana,west africa
  • I have to agree with you 100%. Over the years, i have used the word 'friend' to loosely also and thought they were... But now that i see how far i came from, I see who my friends are now in the present. i been hurt tryin to keep friendships when something was wrong, but in the end, i got strong and moved on with life. This really put something on your mind when you are around 'friends'. But i am blessed for the true friends i have and cant ask for more!!!!!
  • First off, I love seeing the relationship between you and Angela, it reminds me of my sisters and I, we have great times!

    On a more serious note, the term 'BFF' has become a cute moniker, but is rarely taken seriously. People are not willing to put fourth the effort of having an actual 'Best Friend For Life', rather claiming new ones anually. I have 5 sisters, and am definetly not short on companions, but a friend outside of your family circle gives unbiased opinions and feedback.



    My BFF and I have been in a two-sided, give and take friendship for nearly ten yrs. The key is honesty and trust. It also involves making time for each other despite the coming and going of men, jobs, etc. We support one another in our endeavors and encourage each other to be better women. The fakeness displayed by alot of women saddens me because those disengenuine women are missing out on an opportunity to have the true connectedness of a BFF...SMH...I appreciate my Bestie, Love her to pieces, and will go to hell and back for her...Get you a BFF lady's...

    ~~~~LadyLyricist, Out~~~~
  • Learn from the people that burned you in the past and move on, like my mama used to say" feed them with a long handle spoon"...lol.
  • i just realized that i comment u the same comment sorry about that i thought my computer wasnt sending it hahahah
  • hey whats up vanessa i really like yours and ur sisters show i know that probably dosent makes sense hahahah but i think ur line is pretty coool and your shoes and very creative and that how they r dessert shoes hahahah
  • I agree with everything you are saying. Sory but I have to get off subject here but I love pastrys I be rockin them shoes everywhere
  • So what if she was referencing to Alycia. If she did her dirty and that help to inspire the topic, so be it. If she wasn't foul, she wouldn't have to worry about it. The Alycia girl is a groupie. She has been leeching off of celebrities for a while, always has a new "best" celebrity friend.
  • damn vanessa you are the hottest girl alive literally i watch runs house and daddys girls just to see you and how cute you look all the time no matter what you where you seem to always look nice
  • looks nice
  • Per my experience people only want to hear the real insomuch as it reaffirms or ratifies their world view. For example, white America was all for democracy until it landed them a black president. [Just as they were for race based exclusion, i.e. affirmative action, while they were the recipients and not its victims.] People would much rather believe a convenient truth than search for a true fundamental understanding of the world.

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  • Same Old Lame Old's



    Category: the effects of advertisments on males



    wow...advertisment is getting to dudes now

    some pop pills to get big

    some want "that life"

    you can have it

    i'm living within my means

    not competing with that sh*t



    shallow shallow

    dumber dumber

    bullsh*t bullsh*t



    since when real men cared what someone thought

    sidebar...

    have you ever seen someone and thought...

    damn your body was not meant for that...

    damn can you really afford that...

    damn why did you change that, you were perfect the way you were.

    esteem...gas yourself



    everyone wants to be buff or get bigger chest now

    nothing wrong with that if you are concerned with your health but if not...same old lame old's

    running around looking like mass produced blow up dolls.

    if your "swagger" is that nice...compete with yourself.

    screw what people think and f*ck swagger

    fake people eat that sh*t up

    again bullsh*t begets bullsh*t

    and the cycle repeats



    since when cool became doing the same as everyone else...same old lame old's

    be a breathe of fresh air...be a rebel

    oh yeah...to be a rebel now you can't have tatoos lol

    goes to my point

    everyone has a tatoo...same ole lame ole's



    i'm a dork

    and want a corky chick

    spunky...not sexy

    yes

    i'm really rebelling



    be happy with what you got and stay connected with the source





    bluntry...blunt poetry "smart yet uneducated"
  • ame Old Lame Old's



    Category: the effects of advertisments on males



    wow...advertisment is getting to dudes now

    some pop pills to get big

    some want "that life"

    you can have it

    i'm living within my means

    not competing with that sh*t



    shallow shallow

    dumber dumber

    bullsh*t bullsh*t



    since when real men cared what someone thought

    sidebar...

    have you ever seen someone and thought...

    damn your body was not meant for that...

    damn can you really afford that...

    damn why did you change that, you were perfect the way you were.

    esteem...gas yourself



    everyone wants to be buff or get bigger chest now

    nothing wrong with that if you are concerned with your health but if not...same old lame old's

    running around looking like mass produced blow up dolls.

    if your "swagger" is that nice...compete with yourself.

    screw what people think and f*ck swagger

    fake people eat that sh*t up

    again bullsh*t begets bullsh*t

    and the cycle repeats



    since when cool became doing the same as everyone else...same old lame old's

    be a breathe of fresh air...be a rebel

    oh yeah...to be a rebel now you can't have tatoos lol

    goes to my point

    everyone has a tatoo...same ole lame ole's



    i'm a dork

    and want a corky chick

    spunky...not sexy

    yes

    i'm really rebelling



    be happy with what you got and stay connected with the source





    bluntry...blunt poetry "smart yet uneducated"

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