Justin Bieber learned a hard lesson on how to be a player.
That social media makes it damn near impossible to cheat these days! But that's OK, because there's something to be learned from this for both Selena and The Biebs.
If you haven't heard, Selena showed her inner crazy, tweeting a picture of Justin and Lil Twist with rumored Bieber paramour and Victoria's Secret model Barbara Palvin peeking her pretty face through the background.
While it hasn't been confirmed that Bieber actually fooled around with the beautiful Angel, they were both at The Lion King show together and pictured backstage at the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show, so that has to mean SOMETHING. Right?
Well, what Selena Gomez needs to learn from this difficult time is that the mistress to the other woman owes her nothing. The other woman will do anything to please her man, even lie and distort the truth.
In fact, the guy will even encourage his 'other girl' to lie.
So when Barbara tweets:
last time im saying it. please calm down.there is nothing going on w him.i met him and did a pic w him. wouldnt u do the same?:) #friendship
While that may very well be true and I pray to God that it is, I just would like to point out that it could be a complete fabrication.
So I urge Selena to take it with a grain of salt and plan her next move accordingly, because if you keep letting a man get away with questionable behavior it will never stop.
TMZ reported this isn't the first time Selena and Justin have split up, writing, "they've broken up a bunch of times before and this is just another blip."
While this is no doubt a big blip, Justin Bieber might have already had that conversation with Selena.
“I saw Selena go into the hotel around 5:40 p.m. and not even three hours later, Justin went in,” the source said. “I saw him leave around 11 p.m.”
So just what does Bieber need to say to Selena?
He's in pretty hot water, but if he wishes to stay with his Wizards of Waverly Place girlfriend, what he says isn't as important as what his words must convey.
Biebs must soothe Selena's pain. His words need to convince her that this will never happen again. He needs to explain to her that he respects her and their relationship. Because aside from the alleged cheating, Bieber was seen in public with this woman on three occasions.
That alone is pretty embarrassing. Right now Justin must play the role of healer. He has to help Selena mend her heart if they want to work things out. Or this might be the time for them to separate and maintain their friendship.
Whatever the couple decides, they both must be geniune with one another. All we can do is wait and see what happens...
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