DIARY OF A SINGLE BLACK FEMALE: If You Don't Have A Man...

The other day I wrote a blog about cheating and its “new” or “current” common place and/or acceptability.  And I shared specifically about two of my girlfriends; one was a “cheater” and the other was cheated on.

My girlfriend that was cheated on, caught her man with another woman; and upon the discovery her boyfriend locked her & the other chic outside… Yes, this brother didn’t care enough to deal with the drama HE created.

So when one of your girlfriends is dealing with some sort of hurt or “eventful-ness” or bullshit, we must mobilize and help her get through it, right? “Helping her get through” can include hanging out, listening, being a shoulder to cry on…. It doesn’t matter – we try to make her feel better.

Now back to the present, so I was there for my girlfriend in the all the above mentioned ways and I light-weight dissed the guys because I didn’t want to give off the “I knew it” vibe.   And upon the recovery phase and after she mobilized the female support network-LOL, bad mouthed her ex and shared the entire break down of what happen - her stupid ass went back to him.So I am like WTH… She couldn’t last less than a week?