My heart hurts! Why must people look past of what’s really going on in our world. We say this world is bad, but it’s not the world that’s a bad place, it’s the people that makes our world bad. Every since I wrote my blog on Cycle Sex Abuse Of Family Secrets. I have been getting so many messages and you wouldn’t believe some of things they have said. Some people asked why did I wait so late to speak out, after my sister was raped. I didn’t know that it was wrong at the time, I was just a child. Those were my family members I TRUSTED them.
For you people out there that have never experience this, you really don’t know what you will do until you are in that situation. You have no idea the amount of trauma and pain a person goes through, when they have been sexual assaulted or raped. Speaking from my own experience. After everything was out in the open about other family members being sexually assaulted, they would complain a lot. It would hit a nerve for me, maybe because I was trying to block it out. But I use to say some rude things to them. Like just get over it already or I want ever let that affect me. But oh was I wrong!!!
Being sexually abuse was eating them up inside. My time came and I was at that same place that some of them are still at now till this day. It kills pieces of you everyday, until you really deal with the situation at hand. Sometimes my mind would not be still, I would let these evil thoughts rent a place in my mind. You lose control of your mind, your whole being here on earth. I was on the self-destruction path of no return. I was a hazard to myself. Some days I really wanted to just free myself from all the misery. But some of you wouldn’t understand.
The backlash from the readers and the silent treatments from my family was very hurtful. I didn’t ask to be molested, I WAS the victim. Me putting my story out there, wasn’t to hurt my family or to embarrass them. I love them with all of my heart. But I had to tell my story and the secrets that my family kept. To help someone else life. Even some of my childhood friends emailed me and said that, my story was they’re story. You would think as much as girls talked we would have talked about this when we were teenagers. But we didn’t because we really didn’t want people to know what went on in our families.
If our kids today don’t learn about this subject or get help from being sexually abuse. Do you honestly think that they will be in a good mental state of mind to take care of us, when we are older?
When a child or anyone that has been molested or raped. May at some point experience Post Traumatic Stress Disorder that can carry into adulthood. Child abuse of any sort can result in things like low self esteem, depression and anxiety, lack of trust in other people, and other emotional side effects that comes from being abuse.
People are saying ‘lock the sex offenders up’, yes I agree. But at the same time let’s speak out about it! Let’s protect our kids more. Let’s listen to what they have to say! A young lady emailed me and said. I told my mom that I was raped, and ‘she said it couldn’t be that bad, you don’t look hurt to me’. People wake the hell up. This is not something you take lightly, or brush under the rug, nor lock up in your family secret trunk chest, like my family did.
Parents, Teachers, Friends, and Families. When you don’t listen to your children you make them feel even worst than what they did at first coming to you. You may make them feel even more emotionally damage. This may also result in them doing something to themselves.
Every two minutes someone in the U.S. is sexually assaulted. Approximately 73% of raped victims know their assailants. Statistic show from Rainn that there are 525,600 minutes in a non-leap year. That makes 31,536,000 seconds/year. So, 31,536,000 divided by 248,300 comes out to 1 sexual assault every 127 seconds, or about 1 every 2 minutes.
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