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Being vulnerable can be so over-rated in regards to dating, it’s like we ignore our intuition, we listen to shared quotes or affirmation that paint love to be this effortless utopia or we think the latest love song on the radio is speaking directly to us… We can be so hopeless LOL.

The other day something crazy happened to me involving a guy and instead of me being salty, I thought to myself – I wish there was a way I could get a heads up on upcoming bs or possible trifling behavior; like a “Male Memo”. Think about it, you’ve heard the saying where men say “don’t blame me for what the other man did”…. Well that can be hard to do because life is about living and learning; so all we can do is base our present reaction off our past experiences but the moment we reference a past relationship we are wrong or scarred. So why not ask for a “Male Memo” and in the “reference” field it will says “Why would someone NOT want to date you, please list what your ex would say bothered them about you…” Don’t you think that would clear up some much recurring baggage because we usually date the same type of people anyways?

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And it crazy because Drake recently release a record called “Find Your Love” where he talks about falling in love with the wrong women over and over again but this time he BETTER find your love – he seems  a little tired, huh; so I bet Drake would’ve loved to receive a “female memo” .

Just think of the day when you can give your intuition rest and you only have to reference your past relationship for a reaction and not to box the person in before you get to know them or stumble upon something crazy.  But anywho, until the day we have the “Male or Female Memos” ask the new person in your life these questions “Why would someone not want to date you and what would your ex say bothered them about you…” and see how interesting the dialogue becomes & how informed you will be.

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Shelly Flash