2. You’re not putting yourself out there
In most cases, you need other people to get your dreams on and poppin’ — some jobs don’t fall out the Craigslist sky. You have to build a network for yourself so that that someone in your circle can think of how awesome your are when they come across a job opening.
Love also isn’t falling from the Tinder heavens. You might need to make that trip to the bar every once in a while, or join a group that shares your interests to meet future bae.