Bo! Here i am again 🙂 The reason why i have disappeared is because I’M IN LOVE! I’ve been writing about relationship problems, what to do if your partner has left you and how to be a happy single. Since I’ve met my personal Mr. Perfect I’m having a hard time thinking of anything else but being in love! I thought I’m having a ‘Creative Pause’ but then i decided to just write about what i feel and encourage you to fall in love… Do you remember how i thought there’s NOBODY serious out there and how many crushes i had? I loved them but WOW what’s up with this ‘falling in love’ feeling? Let me introduce you to my little story (long story short if you know what i mean). Mr. Perfect is someone I’ve known for about three years and within this three years both of us wouldn’t have figured the fact that we might end up together some day. We’ve had dinners together, met on holidays, wrote each other funny comments on Facebook. At some point he asked me for my Blackberry PIN (didn’t i once say DAMN TECHNOLOGIES!??) and of course i thought ‘why not?’ and here we go: We went on and on and on writing each other 24/7 slowly starting to realize that we are super good with flirting and that even if we knew each other for a while, there were so many things to get to know about each other so we really enjoyed ‘writing’. At the time he was working in Brazil and Argentina (where he could have easily met some other female engagement) and i was in Zurich. The distance didn’t really matter because when you write 24/7 you don’t really care where you are and his job is it to play music till the early morning so it’s not like the time difference was a problem. After a little while he decided to come see me in my city just to make sure the feeling and the words we wrote to each other make any sense and that what’s happening in our heads is real. So here he was with my favorite kind of flowers (Casablanca Lillies), a little horse called Kiko – he’s from Brazil and a simple smile on his face saying ‘here i am’…
And here he was! We have been in love from this very moment on and i don’t think that this is going to ever end if you ask me. Yea yea the normal reaction on this comment (like: this is what you always say) is ‘slow down’, ‘get to know each other’, ‘enjoy the feeling as long as it’s there’ and so on… I really appreciate these comments but on the other hand i think ‘you have NO idea’…
Do you also think that you just feel it when it’s right or is it just right for the moment? What is it that feels so right when it’s right? I think it’s right when…
…HE’S THE FIRST AND THE LAST THOUGHT IN YOUR MIND
…YOU DON’T ACT DIFFERENTLY WHEN YOU’RE OUT WITH YOUR FRIENDS
…YOU FEEL THE LOVE COMING BACK
…YOU DON’T MIND RUNNING AROUND NAKED
…YOU HAVE SENSELESS CONVERSATIONS
…YOU TRULY CARE ABOUT THE PERSON
…YOU GET WAISTED TOGETHER
… YOU DANCE THE NIGHT AWAY TOGETHER
… YOU CAN LAUGH ABOUT THE SAME JOKES
… HAVE THE SAME THOUGHTS (AT LEAST THREE TIMES A DAY)
… YOU CAN JUST CHILL TOGETHER
… YOU UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER WITHOUT WORDS
… YOU FEEL LIKE YOU’VE BEEN TOGETHER FOREVER
… YOU KNOW YOU WANT TO BE WITH THIS PERSON IN GOD AND BAD TIMES
… EVERYTHING ELSE DOESN’T MATTER ANYMORE
… YOU DON’T HAVE A PROBLEM TALKING ABOUT THE PAST (EX GIRLFRIENDS AND STUFF)
… YOU INTRODUCE YOUR LOVE TO YOUR PARENTS
… NOTHING IS ‘TOO MUCH’
… YOU TRULY ARE IN LOVE… 🙂
I don’t want to get into too many details here because you might call me crazy. Really crazy… I’m happy to share this with you guys because I’m sure you have something to share with me too, so don’t hesitate to comment this blog with some more signs if you’re in love!!
When you don’t live in the same country and still manage to not be apart for longer then 3 days, when there are 14 years in between but you are on
