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**GlobalGrind Exclusive** Karrine Steffans-McCrary gives advice on how not to be a stalker and how to identify one from a failed relationship. Part 2 of 3. 

 The holidays are upon us and this is the time when most women find out if they are the main course or the side salad, real quick. Once the latter position is assured this may lead to a set of traits that frame the word rejection. If this rejection leads to stalker status, New York Times bestselling author of The Vixen Manual, Karrine Steffans-McCrary explains from her book six tips to know if you are love sick or just plain crazy. 

 The Vixen Tip List

How to Handle Rejection

Which leads to Tip #3: After placing several calls and no callbacks, do not go to his house and sit outside in your car.

Now this sometimes becomes the natural progression for crazy chicks.  SO you’ve called him, he’s not answering, so now your brain starts thinking about where is he, who is he with, what is he doing? Because nothing in your brain says he’s ignoring me because of me. You’re thinking he’s ignoring you because there’s somebody else. Your imagination goes. There is no one more creative than someone that is being rejected. [Women] can come up with all kinds of stuff. So next thing you know, you’re outside the house…

Which leads to Tip #4: If you find yourself stalking him, do not get out of your car.

Ok so now you’re outside the house.  You already messed up steps number 1, 2 and 3.  Ok, you still have time to save yourself.  Don’t get out of the car. Just leave. Its already gone too far, you already embarrassed yourself. Already drove up there, the calls are made. Just don’t get out the car. But [most crazy women] at this point will get out of the car!

Which leads to Tip #5:

Check back on Friday for Part 3 of our 3 part series with Karrine Steffans-McCrary. For more KS-M talk in between time peep her at: http://www.karrine.com

 

 

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