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Karrine Steffans-McCrary gives advice on how not to be a stalker and how to identify one from a failed relationship.  Part 3 of 3

The holidays are upon us and this is the time when most women find out if they are the main course or the side salad, real quick. Once the latter position is assured this may lead to a set of traits that frame the word rejection. If this rejection leads to stalker status, New York Times bestselling author of The Vixen Manual, Karrine Steffans-McCrary explains from her book six tips to know if you are love sick or just plain crazy.

The Vixen Tip List

How to Handle Rejection

Which to Tip #5: If you find yourself getting out of the car do not jump his gate, bang on his door, scream his name or find an open window to crawl through.

Right. At this point you’re thinking to yourself, I done called him 20 times. I done left him 7 messages. I done drove all the way over here…gas is expensive! I’m gonna go in there. It feels almost like you have to go in there because you’ve done all this foolishness. You’re still hoping at some point you’ll be able to save this. Look I’ll just go in here and I’ll cry, then he’ll feel sorry for me.  Then you kinda want to see like, I wonder who is in there. Why isn’t he answering the phone? I know he got a girl in there. And then imagination starts kicking in, next thing you know you’re peeping through his window.

Which leads to Tip #6: If you find yourself jumping his gate, banging on his door, screaming his name and crawling through his window, do not resist arrest.

Cause you’re getting locked up. At this point now you are officially a crazy person. You’ve done a number of things here. I mean these are six whole steps that you’ve gone through to get to this point.

The verdict: I’ve done all of those! That’s how I can tell you not to do them! I have broken into people’s houses when they weren’t home, went through their emails, printed out emails, and left before they came home. Like a cat burgler. Went through a doggie door! Granted I was in my early 20’s.  Famous, not famous, broke, rich doesn’t matter, there is a psycho chick somewhere. That’s why you can’t be having sex with just any old body.

Be on the look out for more KS-M talk right here on GlobalGrind.com. In between time, peep her at: www.karrine.com