Man, it’s getting sad out here. I’m not sure what to blame it on or even if I want to point any blame, but our sexual society is looking really rough right now. I meet so many women with a dream of becoming a celebrities baby momma or next girlfriend. We have to reality shows “for the love of this and that”, “basketball wives” and so on, and it’s really taking over the mindset of a lot of women. I really can’t blame the women because somewhere that woman was hurt by a father, uncle, boyfriend, or random guy that made her become who she is today. So I’m reaching out to the men, especially men like myself with the ability to take advantage of thousands of women if we wanted to. I’m saying picture that woman as your daughter, sister, or mother and ask yourself if you’d want someone to take advantage of her weaknesses. Take the time to think about that before you take this empty female up on her offer for some “groupie love.”
As men we have to accept responsibility and realize that somewhere along the line a man in that woman’s life dropped the ball. I often tweet, “give a woman a good father and her story changes, give a woman a good husband and her story changes.” I mean that from the heart. God put Adam in charge, not Eve, so as men we have to accept responsibility and make up for the mistakes of our brothers. When you meet a weak woman with low self-esteem and a lack of self-worth, instead of taking advantage of her try speaking into her life and tell her how much she’s really worth. It’s amazing how far a few words can go.
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Even when I was a dog, I always wanted to work for every bone I got. If a woman wanted to just give it away, I’d turn it down. It was just something about a hurting, scarred woman that I just couldn’t get into. I guess deep down not realizing it I sympathized with her and subconsciously just didn’t allow myself to make her situation any worse.
It’s time we restart and build from the ground up. This is a nation at stake. Women are the backbone of our world, and if we keep breaking backs we are only hurting ourselves. Lets bring self-respect and self-love back in style. I’m starting by example and teaching a course that I’ll have different celebs join me on, it’s called “For The Love of Me”. It’s a course on love where I’m teaching men and women separately how to love themselves and the opposite sex in its truest form. Even though I learned the hard way, I have to teach. If you or anyone you know would like to re-learn LOVE, the greatest gift to mankind, the right way send them my way! Sign up here www.tonygaskins.com/forthelove
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Tony A. Gaskins Jr.
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