Everyone has got it’s own reasons to ‘break up’ a relationship but we all have one thing in common: It always hurts ‘in a way’ whatever the reason was. Because you are loosing something you loved/liked and got used to. Everybody cries for it’s reason: Because you had the greatest sex in all times, because you can’t imagine anyone else accepting your habits the way he/she did, because your parents won’t ever love anyone as much as they loved him/her, because you just got so used to this person: It all hurts. There are so many reasons to break up a relationship but the worse is the ‘i just don’t love you anymore’ version. Spending time with someone you love, growing into something, getting used to someone, waking up next to this person every day and commit to someone takes a lot of time and love but still there are these mad days where you wake up and it all ends, over, i just don’t love you anymore! And all you’re thinking is: How can a person who has been SO close to me, be SO far a way all of a sudden? I mean we belong together and why do i feel like I’m the last to know?
Of course we all make up and break up but it’s called a break up because it’s broken. No matter how your partner tries to end the story – it’s because he wants to end it. Do you really want to have a ‘fixed’ relationship? It will always be… We are so many people on this planet, so many beautiful women and even more mothers with handsome sons on this beautiful world. Why not just let go and keep on living instead of crying over someone who actually ‘LEFT YOU’? I can promise you that i won’t ever date a man twice unless I’ve been with others in between and realized that no other man will ever make me happy – this would be the one i guess. Fighting over someone is only worth it if you try to fix the problem IN the relationship and not if a person ‘chickens out’ by breaking up – litteraly leaves you. That’s so stupid…
You should be thankful for the wonderful time you’ve had with this person and he/she should be happy to have had space in your heart and life. I’ve been left and i have left many times before but i really still respect every single man who I’ve had the pleasure to spend time with in my life. Accept of my last one – in this case i have to let you know that i think he’s a total moron, an idiot with no balls. I thought i saw them but it must have been something else. Well i haven’t played that fair at the end to be honest but i did NOT cheat on him and there was nothing else left at the end then being honest: I’m just not feeling it anymore. Mr. X did NOT believe that i just left him. There was no way of talking like mature people do and all he had to say to my confession was ‘I wanted to leave you anyways’. Great… this crap you’re just talking about has exactly NOTHING to do with our actual conversation I’m trying to be sensitive god damn it! Anyhow because of his lack of sensitivity and arrogant way of thinking we had no chance to talk it out. Thank god he’s finally got a new one (that is the complete difference of me. I’m really happy he has found THE ONE. Yay 🙂 I’m sorry… i think i slipped out where were we?
The most difficult but most exciting relationship is definitely the ‘hate/love’ one. Aaah i love it! Don’t we all? I hate you (i won’t sleep with you!) , i love you (I’m dying…), i hate you (i need attention!), i love you (but only from you), i haaate you (get out of my f** face) but damn i love you (wanna marry me?)! If you want my advice on this one? Never ever give it up because you might belong together. Have ‘breaks’ and spend time with other partners in between because the ‘make up’ after the ‘break (without the ‘up’) are S E X Y!
Anyhow – let chemistry, god and the feeling in your stomach decide if you belong together and keep the superficial, principle and moral bs away from you – it’s not healthy.
Love
Racha
