HOW DOES MY YUMMY STUFF MEASURE UP???
This is my YUMMY page, but it is not in any particular order…
- 1. Love himself enough to love Khalil & me!
2. Attractive (preferably, but not a deal breaker if he is not: 6’ 0, dipped in chocolate, has a physical regiment)
3. Knows that cunnalingus is a prerequisite to slowly and passionately getting it in. 4. Love their GOD with worship (in his way) and create growth that is evident in his life.
5. Consistent.
6. In the mindset of being ready to plan for a future
7. Be financially stable and willing & able to provide for our family
8. Adore ME!
9. Want to take full advantage of all that life. Has to offer and not afraid to live by the mantra: Tomorrow is not promised.
10. Make me laugh!!!!!
11. Has to know when to let me rock, while simultaneously disarming me.
12. No physical, verbal or emotional abuse.
13. Say what you mean and mean what you say
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The older you get, the more you understand that specifics in a relationship are necessary!!! The bottom line being is that in the past ambiguity has gotten you left at the corner of Hope Road & Promise Street with a stiff neck and a dumb look on your face. Prayerfully, the lesson from the last loser was absorbed and you have become “that chick” because you are on the better end of chaos & confusion.Ex-boyfriends/girlfriends are exes for a reason, so keep the good, trash the bad and proclaim chile Bang! On to the next one!!
We have all at one time or another put pen to paper and created a list of qualities that we feel is needed to truly being happy and satisfied with our significant other. There is always room for improvement and if you are one of those people that pushes yourself to be greater, then naturally you want someone that mirrors that ambitious nature and sets standards even in the name of love.
So this brings us to where the lines are drawn. You know your level of importance, necessity, and livability level. Here is the part where you dig deep and weigh the options of what you really want and what you can stand. I call my list the yummy page and at this stage and time in my life, I am certain I know what yummy means to me! But your yummy has to be determined by you and you alone.
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The next step is to define the potency in which they exhibit the listed items. Like are they consistent, and do they give it a full 110%? I mean how much time have you devoted to seeing what truly makes them tick, and the sincerity in which they are ticking? We would all like to think that our potential mate is the purrrfect fit, so create that reality and stay grounded in your resolve!
Okay, now here is where the tricky part comes into play. How do we determine what the greatest priorities are on the list, and how many requirements are necessary to make the cut?? Like, if the guy who wants to date you shows up possessing only seven of your ten things, is that enough?? What about only five?? Are you refusing to budge with numbers three, six and nine?? Maybe you are more flexible on numbers two and ten. Clearly you want them all to be present, but it gets hairy for me right about now because of course I want to be happy, I am just not always clear at what cost. What will I NOT tolerate, and what am I willing to be flexible about???
I don’t know about you, but I do know
