<p><strong>Tasha Smith</strong> is soon to be married and has a little advice for the ladies and a few fellas can take down some notes:</p><p>Honey Magazine: Why get married? Tasha Smith: Get married so you can have love, partnership, and a best friend for the rest of your life. I’m going to get married at the end of the year. I cannot wait. He’s so sweet. He’s my buddy and he’s ride or die too.</p><p>Where did you meet him? One of my friends set me up on a blind date and it’s been love ever since. He is amazing and beautiful. He’s the handsome man sitting in the back with the suit and tie on. He’s just a beautiful black man.</p><p>Has this relationship changed you? I didn’t believe in love like that. I didn’t think it existed. I thought it was a fairytale dream—Alice in wonderland that would never happen. And I’m telling you, it is a miracle that I am experiencing the desires of my heart. He taught me how to believe in love and how to trust.</p><p>To all the single ladies out there, how can they find the one? First of all women need to see the movie He’s Just Not That in to You, because for real for real we waste our time with people who are just not that into us. And you know how we think we are just going to change his mind and change his heart. Get him to see that we are that woman that he can be with for the rest of his life. He’s either into you or he is not. And get rid of him if he aint so you can be open for the one who is. And you’ll know it because you won’t have to question because he’s going to do everything that your heart desires. And I’m learning that.</p>